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Location: UK
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House Sharing / Diving up the costs how does it work ?
I think my sister is currently being ripped off to the extreme, however she's too darn soft to say anything about it.
She shares a house with a girl (lady is not appropriate at all!
) who has a 9 month old baby girl, now my sister was living with her before she fell pregnant and never had any trouble before. They shared a 3 bed house and all costs were halved. Even the shopping bill, this girl cooked the evening meal and my sister was 'Not Allowed' to cook (it's true my sisters culinary skills leave a lot to be desired but just thought that was a bit extreme !
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Anyway they have lived together getting on 15 months now and things have been ok while the baby was young (baby's father is not interested) this girl doesnt work and has never worked, doesnt drive so she relies on M (my sister) to get her around. M was fine with this, as it wasnt that much running around.
However the last month house mate has gotten a new bf and one Saturday his stuff just arrives, M is informed that he's moving in. Righto, M gets along with the bf so didnt think anything of it but was quite miffed that she wasnt even asked or told. But she does think that great now there is someone else the bills/rent will be going 3 ways. Nope, they are staying the same as housemate and bf are sharing the room, the baby has been moved to the 3rd room and M is told that she still wants HALF the rent as they are sharing the room and M was only still paying half when the 3rd room was already empty. M lets this slip as she can see the point, however the food bill is still expected to be half, and all the utilities are expected to be split two ways as well, I've said this is absolutely ridiculous as well and told my sister this and it's only now she's getting pi$$ed off with it, she's made her excuses and gone to stay at mum's for two weeks. M has cats and they are staying at the house and the housemate will feed/look after them.
Was talking to M tonight and she has told me she recieved a text from the housemate still saying despite she wont be at the house for 2 weeks she'll still expect half the phone bill and utilities from M !
M works full time and the housemates bf has chucked in his job 2 weeks ago and they just lounge at home on the dole. So M is really paying all their living expenses
Just needed to vent as I'm so frustrated on M's behalf and AT her as she wont say anything as she's so damn soft and not one of lifes fighters. She doesnt want to upset the apple cart but at least I've gotten into her head that she's being used big time.
It got me thinking though how would the room situation/rent normally be worked out ? Does it go on the room or on the amount of people living in the house ?