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Location: Pyla Village, Larnaka, Cyprus
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Interesting 'getting to know you' isn't it?
Originally Posted by
Kazz
That's interesting its something I would/will do God Willing not for many years yet as Mom and Dad well Dad does NOT leave England (he fought in WWII and had to but promised he would not again)
I have a friend who with her husband built a life in Majorca and built a villa then as time came where he could retire left business with his son he died.
she will not stay in Majorca now but goes on occasion and is trying to sell the villa but Spain is not selling. But she loves it and it is her link with him so I do not think she is serious she says it to please the children I think.
Both my parents had died in the 5yrs or so before I left. I have more than one friend who'd put their retirement plans on hold, or abandoned them altogether or, saddest of all died themselves before they could 'do it' on account of their parents becoming very infirm, needing lots of care or going into care.
And in one case, my pal a bit older than me (divorced and had been living on her own in Ascot for many years kids all flown the nest yrs before. Who'd dreamed and planned to retire from teaching and go live on her favourite Greek Island abandoned her plans altogether because her eldest daughter (single mum in her late 30s) had a child who had special educational needs as well as other problems so my pal ended up having daughter and baby back home and home schooling her grandson for the next 10 yrs at least after looking forward so much to leaving teaching as she'd become very disillusioned with it. Very sad really for her. Most she gets to do these days is go down to Torquay or somewhere similar for an annual bowls tournament - at least she had lots of travel when she could - researching where she'd retire to. During those years her younger son married and had 3 kids and she said she'd really miss those if she went too far. Then her son, his wife and kids upped and relocated to AUSTRALIA and she is lucky if she sees them once a year now!
Originally Posted by
Florence
That's a lovely story!
I've been in the UK for about the same time now (7/8years, but with an interruption of going to Canada etc.)
and when I first came here (for uni) everybody kinda smirked and said 'you'll be back, don't worry, give it a year or two' LOL. I'm not saying I will never go back but at the moment it doesn't look like it. It's only when I think about having a kid (which is not in the near future anyway!!) that I think I'd want her to grow up with my mum around.. But who knows..
Tang if you want to move to mainland Europe can I make a suggestion?
YES ALL SUGGESTIONS ARE MOST WELCOME (been chatting just this morning with a lovely Latvian girl who has moved around quite a bit - married with 3 kids)
The Ticino in Switzerland is beautiful and has a mediterranean climate, we used to go on holiday there a lot. It's got lots of lakes, mountains and cute villages.
Or if you are looking for something a bit more connected to the world: Montreux! Many people there speak English, it's close to Geneva (with an Airport), the climate obviously isn't as nice as cyprus but the town is beautiful! And every year they have the Montreux Jazz Festival which is a great festival with some excellent bands playing and lots of free music. Anyway, just for you to consider
Funny, all my travels around Europe before moving here, I've only ever DRIVEN THROUGH Switzerland (one time on the first day they'd opened up the Gotthard - what an experience - driving with 6ft walls of snow either side of the car!
My initial reaction to your suggestion was - I think Switzerland will be too expensive for me. Same as Austria and Luxembourg and a few others where I've only stopped to buy a few bits! Did once have a holiday in a 5 star in Vienna - lordy what an experience - but even then as I recall (Jen was about 5) it was around 300 a night for the hotel lol!)
I must assure you at this point that I can be guaranteed to LOWER THE TONE of any area I move into in five minutes flat! When I left Paignton my Devonian neighbours made me a huge 3ft tall card and inside it just said 'BYE BYE PAT - IT'S BEEN AN EXPERIENCE!'
Originally Posted by
Losos
Kazz, if I might suggest,
don't leave it too long. Often people buy places abroad because they are affordable at maybe 10% of equivalent prices in England but they often need
renovation, and you then have a problem because there just is
not loads of trades people around like there is in England.
Where my wifes house is located (Ex communist country) we found that it was almost impossible to get tradesmen to even come out and look at the job,
let alone do it.
So you need to be youn(ish) and able to do rennovation work yourselves. That means electrics, carpentry, plastering, brickwork, etc.
Losos I should have made it clear I am no longer interested in BUYING anywhere - I shall continue to rent for the rest of my days now. Unlike in UK it is a lot cheaper to rent than to buy in Cyprus. (Going to renegotiate my rent downwards when I see my landlord in a week or so). And that's true in quite a few mainland EU countries. And I then don't feel trapped and if things aren't going too swimmingly I have in my mind that I could easily 'move' at any time - even if just up the road! I'm always in a position to offer a year's rent up front in cash in any currency they like so always manage to get a good deal on rent.
It is my SON who is interested in buying something RIGHT NEAR ME! I need to have a long chat with him again. If he did that - I'd feel obliged to either stay put or live in it or whatever. He worries about his mum.
If he is insistent I will at least try to make sure I am living in a place where it is easier and cheaper for him to get back and fro (ditto for me and dawg) and my other kids.
I've even thought about a huge motorhome. My daughter HAD A FIT! lol!
I like dreaming up plans and feeling I can 'do what I like' really. Been out all morning looking at beachfront properties. Was awake half the night looking at Agent websites mouth agape at just what you can get for about 300 euro here now!!
(Now I am DETERMINED to get some of those photos I've been taking all week on here).
Oh I wish I could come and JOIN ANYONE who is 'moving' and poke my nose in, as I really do find it so exciting.
Might start a thread about 'dreams you have' as this is veering away from FLORENCE and her search and her plans. For which I apologise if I've steered it off course. But I just can't help getting interested in other people's moving plans!
*when I've finished poring over all those photos Florence! Oh dear looks like that might be going on my list now too!