i think as everyone else says well done for really thinking it through!
But you and you alone know what you want to do. Just cos you have had a lot of negative comments (and i dont mean in a bad way guys just that you have pointed out the cons!) doesnt mean you shouldnt do it if thats what you wanted.
I reckon the Dogsey gang would be behind you 100% no matter what you decide x

HIya

No the negatives are beneficial and to be very honest I think I went in all guns blazing and then thought about the actual realityand I know that if I met this dog with bruno and he got on I couldnt say no - and then I wont make a decision based on what my head says !!! I have to consider the current relationship that bruno and luca enjoy too..

My decisions is made and I hope that a perfect home comes up for her very soon., which am sure it will as she is beautiful !!

dani

perspective its a great thing, I think i am going to say No to the meet. I know if I meet and they get on, i will find it nigh on impossible to say no. My worst nightmare would be six months down the line finding myself with two dogs that i cant cope with together.

I will always wonder I know that but i think the very fact that I am doubting this much before I have even let them meet, is a good indication that its not right. Bruno is 8 as well and I kinda feel that I have given him such a good last 5 years and he deserves to have the rest the same way and not get put out by another dog - especially with the possibility of another baby in a year or so possibly too- I dont think thats fair.

I think I was having a mad moment of falling in love with a dog yesterday and I hadnt considered Bruno's day to day world which albeit he might love a pal for a weekend - would he really want to share his people with one??

No, I think I have made my decision and as much as I will have a what if - If I do the meet and they get on I will have a much harder decision to make and I wont think I will just do...

Thankyou guys for all your honest and supportive messages, and I really appreciate the perspective you have all given, Sanity has returned and my heart is back in my chest...

a little sad but ultimately Bruno is my first thought and he wasnt there for a little while...

Glad you've come to a decision Dani - albeit it bitter-sweet for you Can't have been an easy call that one - especially when you are considering having another baby too.

Hope she gets a fab new home soon xx

Have to say Well done Dani you are thinking of the big picture where so many people wouldn't (but always knew you would) I hope you can tell us later about a happy new home for the wee girl. Hugs to Bruno from us x

Having had the pleasure of meeting you and Bruno, Dani I have to say I thought it on our meet and I still think it.....your a very responsible owner. I think Bruno was ''one lucky dog'' meeting you and having you in his life.......

Nice one hun xxxxxxx One day you'll have two I know you will.