can I ask kel, why does she want him to go over there for two weeks? does she need jobs doing or is it just a break for him?

Ok update time! LOL!

Just got a txt from him all happy as larry saying it's lovely over there and he wants us to move there!

I DON'T BLOODY THINK SO MATEY!

So reckon he will get bored? He doesn't drink! lol!

maybe he will by the time he gets back.

Don't I know that Shona One day I'll tell you about the Marquis of Bristol a man who 'tho I never met him I have a lifelong hatred off

Nooo I don't think she needs anything doing, besides, he's totally useless anyway, he can't even make a jam sandwich...

It was just a break for him, a sort of retreat...

LOL I think you should tell us now to calm my nerves. As if it wasn't bad enough he wants us moving over there. Can you imagine, next door to this nutty woman in the middle of nowhere??? He will come home and she'll have bought him a house.

Can I ask, are you upset because you think this woman is up to something............or are you upset coz hes toddled off quite happily for a holiday without you?

You mean you haven't got a spare £5 million I'll give it to you (See I'm a much older bloke, who you've never met, offering to give you a load of dosh so it's not only the b/f who can play this game ) except you'd be lucky to get 5 quid out of me let alone £5 million

Well I never thought much of him going without me 'til it was mentioned here, tbh as it was all arranged before we were together. I wouldn't say I was upset about it, more, suspicious I suppose as the relationship between them just makes me feel weird and it always has done. I don't think it's entirely 'normal' and even by his own admission, the woman isn't all there, my own mum asked am I sure she isn't grooming him, he'd never met her partner yet was relying on him to pick him up at guernsey, they might have known each other over a period of about 2 years but they ain't particularly close, as I said, a few hours every couple months, coupled with the fact they are staying on this wee island in the middle of nowhere and for 10 days (which she advised apparently), not a weekend or a week but nearly 2. And then all expenses paid, she might have money but does that make it right? I don't know? That's why I posted, incase I was just over-reacting as I do tend to get in a flap but it seems more people than not would feel the same.

It's just freaked me out somewhat.

However I do feel better now I know he must have a mobile signal over there which I was worried about.

Hahaha exactly, well if that's how much it would cost he'd better get saving then hadn't he if he?

Oh gowan, give us 5mil and i'll get a nice castle with turrets and everything over here.