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Location: England
Joined: Apr 2004
Posts: 12,925
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H its not true you know that bad things come only
in three's when we find a £coin on the floor or hear of a baby born we never say things come in three's only because we do that for not so good news so we search for the 2nd third thing to come and seem almost miserable unless we do....as someone who has had breast cancer twice in less than 3 years I
KNOW the third time is never to darken my door....we should only look for the 2nd 3rd thing for good news ...
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I am sure your friends husband has made the right choice calling into your house.
As you say your friend would not want them/you to be miserable and mope....grieve yes but remember the old saying "give them the flowers now"......try and remember also in all of this you are equaly as important and need to give yourself time to grieve and laugh....take care Karen