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Location: North-East Birmingham, UK
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02-07-2011, 11:39 PM
Originally Posted by Collie Convert 
Well me and the bf have been together for a year, we are planning on moving in together some point this year, its made harder though that there is 200 miles between us at the moment, he comes up most weeks for a few days but i am the one making the 200 mile move down south to sussex, so its a bit of a nightmare trying to organise new job, house and school for my son all in one go...actually quite scary!
Originally Posted by Dolce
well haven't done it yet. Nearly 3 years together, spend all our time at each other places. No plans to move in officially. To be honest I'd want a ring first, old fashioned i am
We also work in the same office, on the same project, so we arent short of time together!
I think I'd feel less of a need to move in together if we lived closer and were able to spend more time together like if we worked together.
Originally Posted by ClaireandDaisy
Not nearly long enough.
marry in haste, repent in leisure.
Don't think I'm interested in getting married any time soon though so I shall heed your advice! :lol
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Location: Motherwell, UK
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06-07-2011, 12:58 AM
)... I love him for him, and however unfortunate his immaturity is part of him so just need to deal with it 
He has just finished uni after 4 years, so he wants over the summer to chill and relax, and then once he gets a job we may discuss it I do think that his mum has given him too good a life at home though, he barely needs to lift a finger 
I see him just about every day anyway though, and if we aren't together then we text just about the whole time
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Location: Devon, UK
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06-07-2011, 09:55 AM
I thought it was too soon, we were rushing etc. And then just thought "Sod it! Life is too short! If it works, brilliant. If it doesn't we'll deal with it then.". So far it's working super. Good luck whatever you decide to do. Remember life is for living, you only get one shot at it so give it all you've got!
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06-07-2011, 10:10 AM
Originally Posted by wegle
I thought it was too soon, we were rushing etc. And then just thought "Sod it! Life is too short! If it works, brilliant. If it doesn't we'll deal with it then.". So far it's working super. Good luck whatever you decide to do. Remember life is for living, you only get one shot at it so give it all you've got!
Life Ain't No Dress Rehearsal
David
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06-07-2011, 11:00 AM
We have been married for three years now and have a three year old son.If it feels right, then go for it. If you have any doubts then I would leave it a while.
I lived with two other boyfriends in the past - one for six years (and it was my getting a dog that split us up!); and then the other for about a week ... I knew it was wrong when I was doing it, and I was proved right almost immediately! However, if I hadn't made that particular move and then had to rearrange my life when I moved back I would probably never have met my hubby. Life has a way of sorting itself out eventually
Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Location: Norwich UK
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12-07-2011, 04:57 PM
Originally Posted by Insomnia
We waited 2 years and 4 months...we moved in together the day we got married
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12-07-2011, 05:23 PM
We waited 2 years and 4 months...we moved in together the day we got married
Originally Posted by Kerryowner
Ah-me too! We are both practising Christians so the "try before you buy" option wasn't open for us!
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