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22-06-2008, 02:42 PM
me and OH have split...
hey guys and galsJust to let you know me and rick split up today. 7 weeks from wedding...
Things have been strained for past month, and it came to a head this morning....
basically, i have felt as though i dont love him enough to marry so have been thinking it through anyway, but then this morning we ended up snipping at each other , i burst out crying and we ended up talking
turns out he wants me to change too much, wants me to be tidier and lose weight, says he cant show me off to my friends because of how i look, wants me to tone up etc to feel proud....
there was no shouting just a lot of tears and hugs
he wants to work it out but i said i deserve better than this.....
so yeah!
just thought id let you know!
alex
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22-06-2008, 02:48 PM
Big hugs for you...and don't you change for anyone xxx
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22-06-2008, 02:50 PM
Originally Posted by scorpio 
I'm so sorry to hear the news Alex, I can only imagine how confused and upset you must be feeling....and it will be no consolation me saying this, but better now than once you were married and then realising your mistake.
Big hugs for you...and don't you change for anyone xxx
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22-06-2008, 02:51 PM
You're better off without him luv, although I know that probably doesn't help much!
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22-06-2008, 03:02 PM
Oh Alex, I'm so sad to read this, but it sounds like it is for the best.I am really glad to read "I don't do changing". No human should expect another to change for them. You are what you are and you are a fabulous beautiful person who deserves better.
Best wishes to you.
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22-06-2008, 03:04 PM
Originally Posted by Lorna
Here for you babe, and don't you dare change, you really are perfect just as you are. Rick is a fool and has missed out on being the luckiest man alive to have someone as lovely as you xxxx
any man who passses up that corset is obviously a fool!!!
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22-06-2008, 03:05 PM
Originally Posted by Nippy
Oh Alex, I'm so sad to read this, but it sounds like it is for the best.I am really glad to read "I don't do changing". No human should expect another to change for them. You are what you are and you are a fabulous beautiful person who deserves better.
Best wishes to you.
alex
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