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21-06-2008, 06:49 PM
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21-06-2008, 07:12 PM
Originally Posted by Mummy2Max 
Hi everyone, sorry if I have cause anyone any worry about not being around the past day or so, have just been so tired and busy, managed to get on to read some of your replies but haven't had a second to sit and write a reply.
I have asked him not to go on Monday and he has promised me that he won't go
and I have also explained that I'm not very happy about him talking to her again, he has now blocked her on messenger and showed me that he has.It's still hard knowing that he was prepared to lie to me about where he was going, whether he was doing it to protect my feelings or not, they're more hurt now than they would have been had he just told the truth. I guess that's something I now need to get over and move up and on.
Thanks so much to all of you again x x x x x x
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21-06-2008, 08:00 PM
)Good luck for a happy future together and big hugs to you
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21-06-2008, 09:23 PM
Originally Posted by Mummy2Max
Hi everyone, sorry if I have cause anyone any worry about not being around the past day or so, have just been so tired and busy, managed to get on to read some of your replies but haven't had a second to sit and write a reply.
I have asked him not to go on Monday and he has promised me that he won't go
and I have also explained that I'm not very happy about him talking to her again, he has now blocked her on messenger and showed me that he has.It's still hard knowing that he was prepared to lie to me about where he was going, whether he was doing it to protect my feelings or not, they're more hurt now than they would have been had he just told the truth. I guess that's something I now need to get over and move up and on.
Thanks so much to all of you again x x x x x x
Chin up and best wishes xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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22-06-2008, 10:47 AM
I know exactly what you mean about how much you're hurting over the fact that he didn't tell you the truth about Monday when he was planning to go. I know the truth hurts, but sometimes, we'd rather have it like that wouldn't we, otherwise you're left with that awful mistrusting feeling. You'll get over that hopefully with the way he'll be from now on, I'm sure he's regretting it all, so just try and let him be himself again and much as you will want to bring it up, try not to, just try and put it to one side and get on with your lives together. We all have little blips like this in long term relationships, you need this type of experience for future reference too! All the very best, I really hope you're cheering up a bit now, even though you're very tired by the sounds of it.
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