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11-06-2013, 10:30 PM
Please do anything to your puppy that has to do with pack theory. You are a human and she is a dog and she knows that. Dominace theory is very flawed and dog behaviour is far more complex than a simple hierarchy.

Keep up with positive training, not leaving your dog alone with your children, listen to what your dog is saying to you, avoid confrontation and before you know it your puppy will be a well balanced dog with no reasons to growl because she loves doing things you ask her to and being a valued member of your family and being treated kindly. Most people get dogs to enjoy being withthem. I'm not at war with my dogs, we are a team that is mututally beneficial and they are part of my family.
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11-06-2013, 10:33 PM
Originally Posted by catrinsparkles View Post
Please do anything to your puppy that has to do with pack theory. You are a human and she is a dog and she knows that. Dominace theory is very flawed and dog behaviour is far more complex than a simple hierarchy.

Keep up with positive training, not leaving your dog alone with your children, listen to what your dog is saying to you, avoid confrontation and before you know it your puppy will be a well balanced dog with no reasons to growl because she loves doing things you ask her to and being a valued member of your family and being treated kindly. Most people get dogs to enjoy being withthem. I'm not at war with my dogs, we are a team that is mututally beneficial and they are part of my family.
Think you might have posted this on the wrong thread, guessing you're after the puppy that growled:
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11-06-2013, 10:34 PM
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Think you might have posted this on the wrong thread, guessing you're after the puppy that growled:
******!!!!!


Ooops! But my advice to the presso owner is still the same. Do not consider doing anything like rolling your dog or blowing it with a hair dryer, it's dangerous, unneccesary and unkind. It won't make behaviours better but it may mask what's going on so you think the issues have improved. ....it might stop the dog but it won't cure the root cause.
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12-06-2013, 08:24 AM
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All I can add to this thread is my experience with a very powerful, aggressive dog... and I was lucky enough to have a wonderful friend who wasn't fazed by her aggressive behaviour (all 5ft, 8 stone of her). I should say that I took her as a rescue that was going to be PTS.
Rescues do have to pts aggressive dogs, if one did do a lot of damage to someone they would have been sued, no rescue can afford that.

When I had visitors (if anyone was fazed by her she was put in a seperate room) I would ask them to just walk in. ignore her, throw a treat down and turn their back on her. She would run at them growling and literally make their shirts shake her breath was so close but that was all she did (I say all, but only the brave dared do it). I should add that she was wagging her tail whilst doing her scary stuff! Once she realised she was being ignored and all her bravado was going to waste she stopped and we just resumed normal behaviour and she wasn't included till she remembered her manners. If anyone knocked on the door she would leap at it.. and she was BIG. The man that came to read the meter actually ran off.
A wagging tail doesn't always mean a friendly dog, a dog's tail tells us a lot about how they are feeling along with the rest of their bodies. The position of their tail is relevant, if the wagging is soft and wavy, the dog is relaxed, if stiff the dog is on high alert and feeling threatened. A wagging tail can mean the dog is going to attack.

Im sure you won't find this in any journal, and Im sure lots of people would advise against this.. but I knew that dog loved me to bits and I was the gaffer.. I would play with her and give her lots of loving attention but when she got over excited I would physically floor her and lie over her till she calmed down.. I was the Alpha in the pack !!
We are not a pack member, we hold all the resources, food, water, exercise etc. all high resources to dog who want to survive, so don't need to prove anything to our dogs.

The man who first studied wolves were the Alpha roll and pack leader came from is now saying he got it wrong, he was studying a gang of wolves who lived together in captivity, they do not behave like a wild pack, add to this dogs are not wolves this theory is wrong.

A pack of dogs/wolves is mum, dad and offspring, like human families mum and dad are parents to their children, they take care of them and teach them how to survive until they are old enough to fend for themselves. This is were we differ from dogs and wolves, they kick their's out but us humans never stop providing for our children.

I have 4 dogs, I used to have 6, I don't have a pack I have a group of dogs that I act like a parent and teacher to so that they can live in our society.

A word of warning about the Alpha roll, when you roll a dog and pin them down your face is in an ideal place to be bitten. I took on a dog that had put several people in A & E including bitten on their face when he was Alpha rolled, the dog was a JRT/Maltese, a small dog, a big dog can do a lot more damage.

If anyone came to the house that was not comfortable following my instructions then she was put in another room till either she behaved or they left. It took me two years so its not a quick fix.
Your dog is very lucky to have found you, you did work with her to try and turn her round and not be frightened of humans.

Always remember you are the leader of the pack and if you want your brother to visit then your dog behaves as you require or removed till they learn manners.. The more people visit the better but also try to encourage your visitors to include her in a positive way and if they can't then the dog is removed or the visitors aren't welcome.. that is your call.
You were lucky that you have visitors who would still come to your home and face your dog, may are too frightened to face a dog like this. A friend took on a Collie like this and people have stopped coming to her house, she was feeling very isolated when I first got to know her.

One more thing I found really useful is a air blower I got off Ebay.. its just like a hair spray canister that blasts air.. a bit like an air horn. When she behaved badly she got a blast and ran off !!

Good luck xxx
To a dog something like this is an aggressive act and the dog can turn on the person who has used it on them, also it destroys the bond between the owner and the dog, the bond may be able to get back when this is no longer used but I know dogs that 2 years later the bonding wasn't back.
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12-06-2013, 08:35 AM
Originally Posted by catrinsparkles View Post
******!!!!!


Ooops! But my advice to the presso owner is still the same. Do not consider doing anything like rolling your dog or blowing it with a hair dryer, it's dangerous, unneccesary and unkind. It won't make behaviours better but it may mask what's going on so you think the issues have improved. ....it might stop the dog but it won't cure the root cause.
I agree, please don't buy into the pack theory or use negative devices and alpha roles on your dog, they will not help either of you.
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12-06-2013, 07:52 PM
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Er nowhere I have I written that "Toddlers"who attack dogs should be put down, you however believe that ALL dogs that bite should be PTS-so if either of my dogs had defended themselves they should have died because the aggressor was a child ????????? I & my dogs should be punished because a human child, which, allegedly, is not legally responsible for it's actions commits a heinous act You've really lost me there, perhaps dogs & all other animals should be kept locked up away from children/adults in case they try to protect themselves from an attack ????

What about the link between children who abuse animals & subsequent escalation of the abuse to violence & murder of humans ???

Who made you the judge & jury with no regard to circumstance ?? Why should humans be placed above other animal life ? which other animal kills for fun, religion, politics etc etc Answer none only humans Humans are destroying the planet-animals aren't.

This lady came for help not to be told to kill her dog because of an incident in which the"victim"wasn't innocent.

It might have changed but last time I heard the age at which one is held to be accountable for their actions in law is 10. I know there was some debate as to wether it should be raised to 14? But not sure if that happened. Young children should be the responsibility of their parents and the parents should be the ones held accountable for the actions of their offspring. In the same way dog owners are held accountable for the actions of their pets in public places. There has been many a time I've been left thinking that if my dogs were allowed to behave in the same way someone's child is I'd be being prosecuted under the DDA, and that if they can't control the little ******s they should put them on a bloody lead too.
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12-06-2013, 08:07 PM
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Hi All

I have a N/Mastiff x Presa Canario bitch. She can be very wary of men & barks loudly at them if they come in the house, but i tell them to ignore her & she normally comes round.

However my brother called yesterday & she has only ever seen him once before, she barked at him then but he ignored her like I told him to as she was fine. But yesterday she bit him. I am absolutely devastated.

The situation was, that my brother walked in with my two nephews, I told the boys to ignore the dog ( even though she seems fine with kids). I said to sit down & ignore her, she continued to bark so I made her come & sit with me. I noticed at one point my brother was staring at her & I told him not to do that, but unfortunately my brother knows best. He then decided to get up & go & check his van. So he went outside & then came back in as he got to the hallway the dog was barking & just standing & staring at him. He asked me to come & get this bloody dog & as I got up to move her back she bit his stomach. He had scratches & he said he haid 4 puncture marks which i didn't get to see as after it happened he got very aggressive & threatened to punch the dog in the head & then stormed out.

I have had some advice already but am interested in any opinions or help whatsoever.

Many thanks.

My advice for what it's worth would be to consult a reputable behaviourist to help you with your dog.
Part of me thinks that you never should of put your dog in the situation where they felt biting was necessary but that wasn't how it went and it can't be undone. The other part of me thinks that now maybe your brother might just learn to do what he's bloody well told. If he can't follow your rules I wouldn't have him in your house.
Hope you can work through it.



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12-06-2013, 08:38 PM
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It might have changed but last time I heard the age at which one is held to be accountable for their actions in law is 10. I know there was some debate as to wether it should be raised to 14? But not sure if that happened. Young children should be the responsibility of their parents and the parents should be the ones held accountable for the actions of their offspring. In the same way dog owners are held accountable for the actions of their pets in public places. There has been many a time I've been left thinking that if my dogs were allowed to behave in the same way someone's child is I'd be being prosecuted under the DDA, and that if they can't control the little ******s they should put them on a bloody lead too.
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If I remember right, children under 16 years old are not responsible for their dogs their parents are. There was some talk that under 16s shouldn't walk a dog unless an adult was with them but not sure if that was put into the act. No under 16s can buy any animal but I am sure that a lot do.

Like a lot of laws in this country they are ignored, you only have to see how many drive talking into a mobile phone to see just how our laws work.
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12-06-2013, 08:48 PM
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However I saw something interesting when we went for a walk in woods with my JRT, Kixi & our neighbours 2x french Mastiffs. As soon as they got together Kixi held back behind them her tail was between her legs & every time one of them went up to her to play she got aggressive I was by her the whole time & when it happened I would talk to her & try to reassure her, she didn't go to fight with the other dogs just warning them. However I wasn't stupid enough to let them get on with it either. Near the end of the walk she was just ignoring the other dogs. I feel she showed that behaviour because she was scared. It was only the bitch that was trying to play & the dog didn't bother her at all so she wasn't bothered by him. I said to my partner then that I felt she was scared & that she needed socialising & some training to start with.
Hi Freckles, I'm not an expert (so you can ignore anything I say ) but have done alot of research on dog behaviour, warning signs etc. Dealing with a large nervous breed, you have your work cut out for you.

When your dog is obviously nervous, you reassuring her is doing more damage, I'm afraid. You're encouraging her to act that way, you need to snap her out of it. Waving her favourite toy/treat in front of her...if she concentrates on you and ignore the dog, the other dog will more than likely leave her alone. Over time, she will naturally relax around others. Obviously it's not as easy as that, and could take months. But you need to learn to read her, and snap her out of it before she gets too uptight.

In relation to the home aggression, I'm sorry but if my dog ever growled or looked nervous around a visitor in my home, I would put my dog outside. Telling people to ignore the behaviour is wrong, you need to deal with the behaviour.

Try getting Kixi to lie down and stay before a visitors enters your home. If she gets up, remove her from the room. Over time, she will learn that staying down and relaxed she gets to stay inside. You need to be firm and calm, she will trust you more. With trust, she will relax.

Best of luck.
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12-06-2013, 09:47 PM
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When your dog is obviously nervous, you reassuring her is doing more damage, I'm afraid. You're encouraging her to act that way, you need to snap her out of it. Waving her favourite toy/treat in front of her...if she concentrates on you and ignore the dog, the other dog will more than likely leave her alone. Over time, she will naturally relax around others. Obviously it's not as easy as that, and could take months. But you need to learn to read her, and snap her out of it before she gets too uptight.
Modern thinking is to reassure your do when he is nervous but how you reassure them is relevant, talking to them in a calm voice helps and sometimes a hand gently stroking them but it is important that you stay calm while doing this. No baby talk, it is amazing how many people do baby talk to their dogs, that only confuses them.


Try getting Kixi to lie down and stay before a visitors enters your home. If she gets up, remove her from the room. Over time, she will learn that staying down and relaxed she gets to stay inside. You need to be firm and calm, she will trust you more. With trust, she will relax.

Best of luck.
The problem with stressed dogs is they can't obey you, bit like us when we are very stressed and someone tries to communicate with us, we don't always hear them. I used to find when getting my children ready for school very stressful if one of them was on a go slow deliberately in the hope they miss the bus. We do have to take this into account when dealing with stressed dogs. Yes we have to be calm but if we insist on a dog obeying us when they are too stressed to do it, they get even more stressed which is not what we want.
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