Well I spoke to him and this is the card he is playing, which I can honestly believe, but I said that exact thing, "Didn't you even guess that i'd be upset when I saw it????"

He says they have been friends since nursery (so?) and she was only sat there cuz he went fancy dress and was dressed as a vicar (well I have been going church 2 years and never sat on a vicars knee, maybe I should ask big rev'd Norman, hahaha).

I remember the day he came home from that party actually, dressed as a vicar and he was all "Ooooooh do you think it sexy?" and him making advances and I said NO NO NO IT'S WRONG! Made him wear the fireman pants instead

So methinks SOMEONE told him it was sexy...

There are several men whose knee I could sit on and my hubby wouldn't bat an eyelid. These include other people's husbands and some male friends who I have known forever. And, same goes for my hubby - there are several women who could sit on his knee and I wouldn't be bothered.

However, if I saw a picture of a 'strange' woman sat on his knee, I'd be miffed. I'd want a proper explanation and I'm not sure about the one you've been given.

Maybe you need to sit on Rev Norman's knee and get a picture onto that site???

Oh please sit on rev'd Norman's knee, I would love to see pics of that. I think I already have a mental image of it!

LOL maybe I do, esp as Norman is HIS vicar (mine is a woman) haha x

That's the whole point, I don't know her, never seen her before, never met her and she has never been mentioned, therefore, how am I supposed to be able to trust that it is ok?

There has also (while i'm on a rant) been talk of him going to stay with one of these friends he's known forever in Cambridge (where she is at uni) for a week or so. I'm still thinking about how to play that.

LOLOLOL I somehow don't think Norman would be totally up for it, wish he was though hahahaha. Would be so funny, he is this huuuuuuuge 6ft odd tall guy. Bit dorky.

It is hard to say without seeing the picture but I am sure it is totally innocent, but I do understand also why u are so annoyed! I would be to, and I know for a fact my OH would! Sometimes I thinks things like this just happen and they of course always end up on FB!

If you wanted to you could put the photo up we might all be able to give u a better idea with the body language etc, don't think I will be able to find u on FB

I would just have a good old moan at him!

Amy there is many a picture, shall I pick the worst?

Ohh I thought it was only one pic! Sorry! I would definately ask him about it then, if he wasn't even drinking (I know that shouldn't be used as an excuse) I am sure it is completley innocent, she was prob just drunk and being silly! Like I said hard to tell if u can't see the pic!