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24-09-2005, 03:38 PM
I also had to move to rented accomodation with two dogs and it is very hard to find a place that will allow dogs never mind somewhere that is suitable for the dogs. On the up my landlord at that time said no animals but I rang him and said that they were very good, that they stayed in the kitchen and that if they did do any damage i would pay for it. Ask you having nothing to lose. Best wishes and try and keep your chin up!
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24-09-2005, 05:16 PM
Originally Posted by bobbie3917
im going though it right now and now i think its starting to get to me first off i lose Leo, then i kick my OH out for thinking that he can slap me when ever he wants and now my kitten has gone missing (its been 3 days now) she is an in door cat only and now i think she has gone for good) the house has to go and i have to move out and im finding it hard to find somewhere i can have the dogs as well so its looking like i might not have them for much longer. i breed a little of pups for me to keep a pup and now i might not be able to keep the 2 i have.
i tried telling my mum what im going though and she dont care at all my nan wants to know is what he has done wrong. i cant tell her as she will say i told u so.
The future may appear dark and grim right now, but there's always light at the end of the tunnel.
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24-09-2005, 10:57 PM
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25-09-2005, 06:49 PM
I'm so sorry for you animals. Nothing I can say can really help there. But be PROUD that you kicked out an abusive OH. Believe me, no amount of 'sorry's' or promises ever make any difference. I was in an abusive relationship and wish I'd had your strength. When I look back now I deeply regret the second chances, especially now I am in a non-violent relationship.
You have your self-respect and your pride. GOOD FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And you are safe!!!!
I promise you - things seem bleak now and it is understandable that you feel low. It's a shock being on your own after being in a relationship, however substandard. You will be fine as time goes on. Don't ever feel you can't bend people's ears or talk about how you feel.
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