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Originally Posted by
FluffHippo
Hang on, your asking why you need to tell off a puppy?
Seriously?!
As owners of puppies we need to be its mum and show what's right and wrong just like its natural mother did or it won't learn.
What a load of codswollop how can we be a mum to a pup, they are a different species to us, we have problems teaching or children how to be humans, we have no chance teaching a pup how to be a dog. We do need to teach a pup how to behave in our society but not by 'nipping the behaviour in the bud' when it is usually the owner's fault because they are not listening to the pup or want total control for the sake of it, thankfully the people on here don't do that.
A pup is a baby, our own babies don't understand what a telling off means, we have to teach then but expect a pup to know.
Originally Posted by
yvonne52
to b honest l agree with flufhippo, we are there mothers and all puppys need to be taught right from wrong, or they will be the dominant one,l don't hit him or shout at him just tell him no
I am not a bitch and have no intention of being one, my mother didn't dominate me and I don't know anyone's who did, only control freaks dominate and it has no place in training a dog. I am fed up turning dogs round that dominating methods have been used. We understand the word 'no' in English but what about in Chinese, Russian, Arabic, etc, Just because we understands the word doesn't mean a dog does, we have to teach them. Far too many dogs fail because the owner has to high expectations of them.
Originally Posted by
yvonne52
when he on my lap he nips,and when he tries to chew my kitchen cupboards
Are you stopping him from getting off? He needs things he can chew, we give our babies something to chew on, we need to with our pups as well. Distract him away from the cupboards with something he can chew on, works a lot better than 'no'.
Originally Posted by
FluffHippo
If he nips you make out he's hurt you. For kitchen cupboards use anti chew spray and give him something he is allowed to chew. His growling is him trying to be dominating over you. When he growls at you firmly say no and send him outside.
Would you use chew and spray on something your baby was chewing?
I get so frustrated when people say dogs are trying to take us over by dominating when it has been proved wrong on s many occasions.
Originally Posted by
cacoll
I'm loving the nipping at the moment, it's only ever when Marco is playing or when he wants to play and I'm busy doing something else. I googled puppy bite inhibition after reading about it on here in order to get him to soft bite (not like he would bite his siblings which is what he's like when he bites us).
I did the 'ouch' cry when he was a little hard and turned away, when I looked at him he'd took himself to his bed with his paw over his eyes and he was softer after that for a while.
Good advice
Originally Posted by
Trouble
My latest Pug has been the worst dog I've ever had for chewing and she has loads of chew toys, bones and other dogs to distract her. It's not a boredom issue it's the need to chew as they are teething.
Even adult dogs need to chew but nothing like when pups, it is one of the reasons I give mine raw chicken wings or ribs, the help keep their teeth cleaner as well.
With pups it doesn't matter what they have to chew if it is not near them they go for something handier, our cupboards are a favourite.
My dogs are my friends not my servants, I have them for company and for how much they enrich my life, I do need them to be obedient as well so like we have to teach our children how to live in our society we need to teach our dogs. Dogs have the mental capacity of a 2 or 3 year old child, if I won't do something to a child I wont to a dog, if I will do it to a child I will do it to a dog. If I am not sure, I do aore thinking and research.
Every person I have known who uses shock collars are all control freaks so that they can dominate the dog.