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Anyone here bite their nails ? smoke ? have other habits ? Anyone have a dog throw at rattle bottle at them to make them stop ?
Anyone have another human do something annoying to make them stop ?
Who's throwing bottles at anything? And even if that was the case, though I have to be honest, you're bringing a simple tried and tested method so wildly out of context that it's barely recognisable, if someone threw a bottle at me for any reason, it would, without any doubt, get my attention and so the method would have been successful. However, that's not the point as I'm not a dog, and nor is a dog a human (though the more I read some forums, the more I believe many think they are).
Being absolutely and brutally honest, I PMd Inca last night as I feel for people in her position at times. There is an individual who has an issue which only she can really know the full context of, her own dogs, and the stresses and strains that it causes. She sees a safe and humane technique on TV and thinks it may just work for her issue. She asks on a dog forum and within a couple of posts gets a worst case scenario. Now I'm sure that post was made as a "it can happen" type post and made in good faith but it can make any owner feel as though they're being cruel before they've even begun. I think it grossly unfair, I really do. Not only unfair but also very destructive, as , as seems to be the case (based on first signals) it might just be the one thing that the dog responds to.
Worst cases always stick in our heads far more than best cases and so it's always so easy to recall them when something slightly related comes along. Let me assure you, if shaking a bottle to get a dog's attention is on the "hit list" of too dodgy to try then I'm one of the worst dog owners you could image. I do far more than shake a bottle, as mentioned earlier, deliberately exposing my dog to loud sounds each and every day. However, the recent posted pics of Blondi during a very typical training session should show you that she loves every second of it, and has made remarkably fast progress because she loves the new challenges so much.
When I read posts such as those made in response to this thread I am reminded of Blondi so much and her cushion destroying fixation. Reading similar threads here, the common solution seems to be to remove the cushions. That to me is not solving the issue. That is avoiding the issue. A complete different ending. Rest assured, I tried leaving toys around, I tried bitter-apple spray, I tried so many different things. Eventually I sat and thought about how I used to be with my "blue print" dog, Busta the GSDxRottie.
From then on, whenever I returned and she had torn into another cushion, I pointed at the cushion and in a very displeased manner gave a very firm "NO". It took two to three days to solve the issue using that really quite unpoplar method of punishing after that fact. (Apparently we have to catch our dogs in the act to reprimand them for it.) I swear to you that she shows absolutely no interest in the cushions whatsoever now. No fright, no desire, just complete disinterest.
My Grandad is another shining example. He's had dogs all his life and if you quoted any modern day behaviourist or trainer's name he would look at you with a dumb expression. Yet, all through my growing life, I have never once seen him with a poorly behaved or unhappy dog. Quite the opposite; I envy the relationship he has with his dogs. I believe that it's precisely because he's not so wrapped up in how wrong or right what he does is, and has the now rather old and out of date belief that a dog is a dog with extremely basic needs, not a surrogate child, that he can just get on and enjoy the relationship that he has with his dogs. You just can't beat that in my book. He is certainly my greatest inspiration for the way we should live with our dogs, and far more so than any modern day trainer or behaviourist will ever be.
Apparently, the softer our methods, the better for all. So why are antisocial dog cases constantly on the increase? Why are dogs in rescue centres at an all time high and seem to be showing no sigh of decreasing.
Whatever happened to "as fit as a butcher's dog", etc. Now the butcher would be accused of Lord knows what. Something wrong with this or that sausage, this or that bone isn't right, and might just cause this or that syndrome. Going by today's extreme tilt to almost mothering our dogs, it's a wonder that dogs twenty, thirty, forty. etc years ago were not all untrained killers!
My apologies for rambling and perhaps upsetting one or two people but this issue has boiled up since last night. For revenge, you can always call me cruel, I won't mind.
For reference incidentally,
here is a link to Robs comments towards comments made about the Dog Borstal programme and methods used throughout.
http://www.[Automatic System Edit: URL].org.uk/forums/index.php?showtopic=101451
OK Apparently not then as Dogsey seems to object to the link.