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Originally Posted by
talassie
I am really really sad writing this and I hesitate to post it because I fully expect to be shot down in flames for even thinking about not keeping my dog.
I have struggled with Tala's recall for the past year. I have spoken to many many people and I feel I have tried everything to no avail. She will not come back if she sees other dogs playing and she even walks off with the other dog and owner. She has been on a flexi or a long line for months but this has no effect on her when she is off lead.
She is not interested in playing with me when out and about. I might as well not exist. I have tried so hard to motivate her and in the house she will play but outside everything is more interesting and if there is another dog then I don't stand a chance. I have seen her work well with other trainers so I doubt if it is just being a teenager.
I have used mainly reward training. But looking at it from her point of view she gets rewarded far more for not coming back because she gets to carry on playing with dogs.
I have been told that she is disobedient because she doesn't respect me and have put pack theory into place in the house but this has not made any difference to her behaviour outside.
I know there are many people who work with much more difficult dogs. But I have been unable to enjoy my time with Tala because I cannot do the things I used to do with my dogs. I like to go walking but I am limited as to where we go because she can only be allowed off the lead with dogs we know have a good recall. Even then I have to ask one of the other walkers to get hold of her for me. I have really lost all my confidence in my training ability.
We recently spent time with a friend who breeds shepherds. Tala loved being on a farm and running with the other dogs. She has been offered a home with this person and I am wondering if this might be the right thing to do. I ask myself what sort of a future she has with me not being able to run free like that.
I would NEVER EVER put her into a rescue but I am having to consider whether she would be happier on the farm with the other dogs.
I really really don't know what to do for the best.
Hiya, I haven't read the other posts so apologise if I am repeating anything (I usually read all posts in a thread before repluing but am a tad rushed these days).
Is the issue that you feel you haven't bonded in spite of trying? do you feel she'd be happier with someone else?
You say you've implemented pack theory - sometimes if done a bit OTT this can actually diminish the bond between owner and dog, this aspect may be worth looking at. This can happen especially if dogs are not allowed to initiate attention and contact which some stricter programmes tend to lean towards. Personally I never follow it nor suggest it to clients
Not sure how old she is etc but I'd invest in a really good one to one trainer or even a reputable behaviourist to spend some time with you and see if you can do anything about the problems
It is certainly disheartening when you feel a dog won't recall and prefers to play with other dogs etc and when you've really worked hard to improve matters with no result. However itmay be that you are making some basic errrors which are causing the problem to emerge.
One thing many peeps do is to not really allow play or call back the dogs straight away. They as you rightly say are rewarded for being with the other dogs. What I always recommend is to allow play if there is no chance at getting the dog back and then when the dog is tired, that is when you then call your dog, who is usually glad to come back for a tasty reward or toy. You have to find out what motivates the dog, that's really important! It's not always what we think it might be, for some dogs it's something daft like Cheerios for example! Most dogs it's more likely to be roast chicken or liver.
Over time, the dog can if necessary be recalled earlier and this is just the tip of the training iceberg, but if attempts are made to recall when the dog is not listening, it is doubtful any dog would come back
There are many other tips as well!
This article may help
http://www.dog-secrets.co.uk/behavio...come-back.html
http://www.dog-secrets.co.uk/behavio...very-time.html
http://www.dog-secrets.co.uk/behavio...tionships.html
or for trainers/behaviourist try:
http://www.apdt.co.uk/
http://www.apbc.org.uk/
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