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18-09-2009, 06:43 PM
Originally Posted by elaineb 
Do you find your memories are so vivid? I do, when I lost my mum aged 7 I only had those 7 years of memories, but do you know what I can remember being in my pram, I must have been about 2 and I can remember every Christmas present every little trip we made together..I still see her face as clear as it was when I was a little girl!
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I'm so sorry your mum left you so soon xxxx
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18-09-2009, 06:57 PM
Originally Posted by Helena54
I know all of you who have followed mum's life with me over the past 3 years would like to know, she just passed peacefully away in her care home. They told me she was so very happy today because I had visited this morning and fed her chocolate cake, and she just slipped peacefully away after a good lunch and an afternoon sleep, she was gone, no more pain.
I've just been up to see her, I kissed her on her cheek, cupped her head in my hands and said my goodbye and most of all, I thanked her for being a mum in a million, because she was.
I might not be around much, but thankyou all for your support over the years, going through all our ups and downs, but now she's at peace, no more pain, poor little love, she did suffer, but not anymore.xxxxxxxx
I know your mum has suffered so much, I'm so glad the end was peaceful for her.
My heart goes out to you and your family and best wishes to you all.
Hugs xx
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18-09-2009, 07:01 PM
As time goes by I remember things about my Mum, but what is more noticable is that I am starting to think and act just like her, I can see it in myself.
In a year or two you will say something and then think, oh god that was Mum saying that!
Chin up Helena we are here to wipe the tears from your ears when ever necessary
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18-09-2009, 07:24 PM
Originally Posted by Lottie
Oh Helen, your post made me cry.
I know your mum has suffered so much, I'm so glad the end was peaceful for her.
My heart goes out to you and your family and best wishes to you all.
Hugs xx
Originally Posted by Nippy
Hi Helena, everything you are feeling is perfectly normal, you won't know where you are for a while yet. I think you just have to ride this roller coaster until the pain eases and it does, bit by bit.
As time goes by I remember things about my Mum, but what is more noticable is that I am starting to think and act just like her, I can see it in myself.
In a year or two you will say something and then think, oh god that was Mum saying that!
Chin up Helena we are here to wipe the tears from your ears when ever necessary
and tears DO get in yer ears yer know!!! When you're lying in bed laying on your back they do, I know only too well!!! Thanks for always being there for me with your lovely little pm's that always made me smile, and it wasn't just through this either, you have always thought of me throughout it all, so thanks Jen xxxxxxxI had some lovely little black stud earrings which I bought for Tuesday, and even though I'd been on that vino, I remember when I got undressed, I painstakingly took them out, managed to put the butterfly clips back in them with great precision bearing in mind the state I was in
..... but do you think I know where I Put them??? Nah!!!!
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18-09-2009, 08:13 PM
Originally Posted by Helena54
It's good that I've got you lot on here, at least this way I can let it all out without fear of retribution or boring everybody else around me!
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