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Location: B'ham (nr the airport)
Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 2,963
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Hi,
I would have a word with your new neighbours. Explain your concerns to them and tell them that the plank of wood is there to prevent your dog putting his nose under the fence. If they think it's to stop their children putting little fingers where they don't belong, they may become defensive. Although if you say the dogs may think it's the cat and nip them, then you'r trying to stop their kids from getting hurt.
Try to make it sound as though you're doing them a favour by talking to them about it. I'm sure they don't want you to be anxious about your dogs in your own garden but I'm also sure they don't want their cat to get hurt.
one of my dogs hurt a cat recently and I still feel guilty about it, even though there was nothign I could have done to prevent it.
Find out if there are times when the cat is definitely inside and make a point of allowing your dogs into the garden at those times. I don't mean you shouldn't allow your dogs into the garden at other times, but if they can go outside when the cat isn;'t there, they my come to realise that it's no big deal.
Finally, try not to get so worked up about it. Hopefully their cat isn't completely stupid and will stay out of your garden. But if you're feeling worked up ro anxious, the dogs will pick up on this and they'll go utside already hyped up.
Try not to worry. I'm sure everything will work out just fine. Lots of people have neighbours with cats/dogs and they live happily side by side for years. I hope you and your new neighbours can do the same.
Laura xx