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Will they ever get on
Hi, This will be long so please bear with me, as I need you to no my dogs so you can comment.
As most of you know I have 3 SBT's 1 male and 2 bitches they all get on brilliantly
Recently a new man has come into my life (human form
) He has a gorgeous male Border Collie of about 4/5 years old. He shows no aggression around other dogs. (he has been known to pee on a few but thats another thread) Anyway as our relationship progresses we know we need all dogs to get along, Which also will mean in the same house in time hopefully
My concern is Toesy my male, not so worried about my two bitches.
I obviously know my dogs inside out. Rio my youngest bitch 21 months will be perfectly fine indoors and out, I've got no worries at all about them getting along. Ruby my other bitch 5yrs is unpredictable I'm not always 100% how she's going to act but still got no major concerns cos she's not really nasty and wouldn't fully attack a dog. Out and when off lead if she gets away with it she will run at a dog sometimes snapping but doesn't really fight, she's just showing off. Not sure how she'd be with another dog in the house, but don't think she would seriously attack. Toesy off lead out and about is fine, much better than Ruby, he doesn't attempt fight just usually sniffs and walks on when told. But also has never attempted to play with another dog. On lead he is totally different, if he sees a dog at a distance he's not bothered by it and would ignore it. but if I met someone I knew and stood for a chat and Toesy was on lead he would growl and act as if he wants to attack the dog, even if he had seen the same dog off lead 10 mins before and was perfectly normal with it. He is the same at shows especially with other Staffies (funnily he's not like it with other breeds at shows) But if a Staffie gets too close to his cage he goes balistic. And in the ring if he's not totally transfixed on me because of treats he'd want to go for every dog, especially some that he knows and both dislike each other with a vengence. He's terrible growling and lunging all the time, then won't walk properly. No-one would believe that the same dog could be off lead in the park and not be bothered with other dogs, It's really strange.
Now my friend brought his dog on Sunday and he went on the grass where I walk them and waited for me. I didn't want to introduce Tosey to him on lead incase that made him growl, I didn't want an instant dislike.
So I put Ruby on lead and just let Toesy an Rio run over to him. they were both ok. His dog seemed a bit worried at first. When I let Ruby off she kept running at him not biting though but he didn't know how to take her (understandably) That eventually led to him and Toesy having a bit of a ruck, nothing serious and they stopped as soon as we shouted their names. We carried on and had a 30min walk Rio was totally fine as i expected, Ruby got bored of running at him and gave up and Toesy was good enough for us to feel happy with the first meeting. He ignored him mostly, he did sniff him occasionally and let him sniff him also. I only had to warn him once when I thought he looked like he was going to go for him. After the walk I didn't want to take them into the house so took them all straight into the garden. wandering around on the lawn they were all ok, but if both males came to us for a pet and they got quite close to each other I had to keep repeatedly warning Toesy and getting more of a distance between them, I didn't trust him. A bit later Toesy went into the house for a while then came back out, and it was then that he started growling so I put him back in.
Sorry this is so long, so anyone who has actually got to the end before getting too bored
Does it sound to you there is a chance they could get along in the future, or will I never be able to trust Toesy with him.
Views and advice please
Mitch