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Location: West Yorkshire
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Originally Posted by
freckles211
OMG.... It seems that I've started a war lol. Some members feel i should have given the whole story even though i have posted before. So here it is. Hope you're sitting comfortably & have a fresh coffee/tea to hand. However you may need to make a pot.
I didn't know the full story because it is a long time since I have been able to get on here, it is a good idea to refresh peoples memories of what has happened previously, my advice would still have been the same but I would have had a better idea of why.
Kixi is a 2yr old Mastiff X. Her mother is a Neapolitan Mastiff & her father is a Presa Canario X Lab. My stepson had her from 8 weeks old & when I first saw her I thought she was a Lab. When I read up on the breed/s my first thought was. OMG thats the wrong dog for him. She was his first dog & at first all seemed ok.
You were right, he is the wrong dog for your stepson, the fact he never bothers with his dog, is happy to leave him the way he does, sorry but any dog would be wrong for him, he is lucky he has you and your partner to pick the pieces up.
Due to my partner going round to the house every night to see his sons along with my JRT, he & Kixi formed a great bond. As time went on my partner would go & get Kixi & take her out with our JRT. Kixi then started coming to our house more & more. At first it was probably an hour at time & then it got to the point where she would stay for the weekend as my stepson was out. My partner & I were growing more & more concerned that the dog was being left for hours on end.
The home situation when Kixi arrived at 8 weeks consisted of stepson, his mum & brother. It has been this way up until around April this year when the house was sold. My Stepson stayed in property until completion & his Mum & brother have moved to another property where dogs are not allowed. Hence Kixi being left at the other property with stepson. As I have already mentioned due to my stepson working full time & then coming home & showering & then going back out. He relied more & more on his Dad to exercise Kixi (if it hadn't been for his Dad she would not have gone out at all). It then moved to the point that she was then with me all day as I could not stand the thought of knowing she was going to be stuck in all day on her own. Stay on own or come to me, those were the options. We are now at the point where she is living with us & if the stepson wants to come & see her he can.
Sorry, your stepson is very selfish to take on a dog no matter what breed it is then neglect it, this is neglect on his part and is mainly why you are having problems with the dog now.
My partner has mentioned to me on more than one occasion that Kixi has bitten either a friend of the Mum or as mentioned in previous posts the Postman. Part of me felt unsure as my thoughts were "if she has bitten as much as you say she has, wouldnt you have had the Police at the door???
Do you have any more information about these incidents?
I have seen Kixi be aggressive with other dogs, but not with people before. However I saw something interesting when we went for a walk in woods with my JRT, Kixi & our neighbours 2x french Mastiffs. As soon as they got together Kixi held back behind them her tail was between her legs & every time one of them went up to her to play she got aggressive I was by her the whole time & when it happened I would talk to her & try to reassure her, she didn't go to fight with the other dogs just warning them. However I wasn't stupid enough to let them get on with it either. Near the end of the walk she was just ignoring the other dogs. I feel she showed that behaviour because she was scared. It was only the bitch that was trying to play & the dog didn't bother her at all so she wasn't bothered by him. I said to my partner then that I felt she was scared & that she needed socialising & some training to start with.
Poor dog, she doesn't know how to interact with other dogs and is frightened of them.
I have had some advice from a family friend whose is a Veterinary Nurse. As soon as the incident happened I rang her & asked her advice. She advised me to do 3 things. Firstly get Kixi spayed, buy her a Baskerville muzzle & also try pheromone plug in or the spray & went on to explain why these 3 steps. Even though I had already sought advice I have used this site & always found it a great source of info. So hence my reason for posting.
Spaying her won't make any difference to her fears but there are the odd dog that spaying can make worse, I would try and sort out her problems first. The muzzle will give you more piece of mind but won't do anything for Kixi, even when a dog has a muzzle on they can still do a lot of damage to another dog and they has been an odd case were a muzzled dog has killed another.
I believe she had a reason for biting however it does not take away the fact that she did it. The reason I said in an earlier post about being slated was that I am trying to find the best way forward & to make sure that this does not happen again. Perhaps I should not have took her on, but I could not knowingly let her stay in that house & not see anyone for hours on end, not to mention the fact that she may have been rehomed to a total idiot with no common sense at all.
Dogs always have a reason to bite, we usually don't know what the reason is. Nobody saw Kixi bite your brother no see if he did anything to her first. You only have your brother's word for what happened and he refused to let you see the bite marks.
Kixi has made some positive changes since she has been with us. When she first came it didn't seem that she knew what pees or poo's meant or even wee-wee's. so now I have got her to the point that I can ask her if she wants wee-wee's, I then walk to the door with her & she will go out. I then watch her & as soon as she starts to go I praise her & tell her she is a good girl for going to wee-wee's lol. I did ask my stepson what command he used for her to go out to toilet & he just said that he used to just open the door (see what im up against). The other thing she was doing was being sick, normally after she had had a drink. However now she hasn't done it for a good couple of weeks. I believe she wasn't having enough food. So I have her on a dry diet, Salmon & Potato with a slither of Nature Diet mixed in, it encourages my JRT to eat all his up lol.
Sounds like you are making progress well done.
Just going back to the Baskerville Muzzle. My partner said he didn't like it. I have to say it did feel very rigid & there was no padding inside. My problem is even though I say I have taken her on which as she lives in my house then to me I have, it is really my partner who has taken her on from his son. So unfortunately I in a way don't have the last say. ( I know what you are all thinking). Plus my partner is the one paying for her spaying etc.
I hope I have covered all points. If not please let me know.
Short nosed dogs do have problems with muzzles but it is personal choice but she must be kept under control and not allowed to meet visitors to your house, gates will let her see the visitors but not meet them.
TTouch will help her, so will the body wrap, there is a lot of information on the internet about TTouch. Also clicker training will help build her confidence which she needs.
Personally I wouldn't get her spayed until she had more confidence but a bitch is better spayed.
Good luck with her, she is lucky you have taken her in.