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Originally Posted by
talassie
I understand what you are saying but it is more difficult to put into practice. I do try to vary where we walk but short of getting in the car and driving somewhere we are a bit limited as to where we can walk and I prefer to let her play with dogs we know so that I know the owners won't go wandering off with my dog in tow. Also not everyone likes to let their dog play with a big shepherd. Having said that I allowed her to go to a dog yesterday and the owner pulled it close and she came back when I called
It was boring because it wasn't running.
She recognises her 'friends' from a long way away so it would take a long time to get to them on lead so I tend to sit her and make her wait and then let her go. Perhaps this is my big mistake.
She will leave in the house but not outside off lead. She once found a newly dead rabbit and wouldn't come back until she had eaten it. In the house she will sit with a biscuit on her paw until allowed to eat but I haven't managed one on the nose because she moves her head if I try it
She needs her leave reinforced in different places too then..start off with treats like you do in the house, then build it up to other more valuable things...I would also teach a good and reliabele 'drop' command.
It sounds like she goes deaf to you when you are out and about and there is other stuff going on? You need to make youself much more interesting and perhaps look to improving your bond with her? I am not saying you don't have a bond...but perhaps she doesn't view you as reward enough when out? In all honesty...perhaps you are trying too hard??!!!!
I am a little confused as to what you want...you let her offlead to play with local known dogs...but then she runs off to other new dogs if they appear and won't come back? I am wondering what you want her to do? Do you want to walk with other people and have your dogs play together (I don't do that you see so maybe I am coming at this from the wrong angle, when I walk I focus totally on the dogs, I may say a brief 'hello' but that's it ost of the time, unless we plan a walk with someone, but even then I am largely focused on whichever dog I have).It's just you want her to recall around those dogs and new dogs?
I think that will be really hard for you in all honesty and it will take a LOT of time and effort. Not wishing to put a downer on it all
I think she associates her walks with playing with dogs...her walks have nothing to do with you. THAT is the thing you need to change and until you do that, you won't solve the problem. YOU have to be better than all the other dogs and until you are, she won't come back to you. In order to make yourself into the best thing in the park, you need to not walk with people for a while...you need to interact with her all the time, play/tickle/train....don't give her the chance to ignore you.
That all sounds a bit harsh but it isn't meant to be...it just sounds like you want her to play and you want to walk with the others, but you want her to come back...that whole scenario though could be the reason she is like this in the first place...and that's the thing that needs to be sorted. If you see what I mean.You may not be able to ever walk that way with her....certainly until you sort this out...you won't be able to sort this out and walk in that way as her expectations of the walk are not what you want.