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Location: Lancashire UK
Joined: Jul 2010
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Re the Discover Dogs observation, I said don't expect 'everyone' to be polite - not don't expect 'anyone' to be polite
I have no doubt that lots of people work incredibly hard - but what is unfair about saying that not everyone does? I've had some really great conversations at DD, but I'm not going to pretend it's all great - coz it isn't.
I know there are a lot or really well-run stands with very friendly and enthusiastic people, but equally, I have also encountered some very rude, disinterested people and dogs that were clearly not enjoying the experience at all. I do understand that these things depend on volunteers and they have to take what they can get to an extent, but if a dog is clearly miserable, surely its welfare comes first?
I used to think that only someone really passionate about sharing their knowledge would volunteer - after all, it is a long day - but just because a lot of people are absolutely lovely, there are quite a few who are not and especially if you have fought through crowds to see a particular breed, it can be a real let-down if the person on the stand just does not seem to want to talk to you.
I've been cut dead when someone the breed person knew came by: ordered to stroke a dog that was clearly miserable and definietly not looking for a stroke (I declined politely and the person said 'suit yourself' and went back to their newspaper!) and felt really miserable when I excitedly told someone on one stall about a friend's dog that had reached a very high standard of training, only for her to say 'who bred it' followed by a big eye-roll and a loud sigh - before she turned her back on me.
Since when has being an 'expert' given anyone the right to be so ignorant? I think it is actually letting down all those people who do take part willingly and with enthusiasm and who genuinely want to share their passion for their breed.