My boys are going home today :(

Hey guys, well am sat here putting off getting dressed , as when I do I'll have to get the kids sorted to take them back to their Dads house

I have 2 living with me & after a huge court balls up, 2 living with their dad 300 miles away

This is the 1st time my oldest son has been to visit us here, theyve been here 2 weeks & he absolutely loves it, which makes it so much harder to take them home. My other 2 sons are also going up there for 2 weeks.

The eldest has asked if he can stay for another 2 weeks & Ive had to say no as we are both at work, then have a break a way booked. So Ive told him once we're back, he can come down for another week at the end of the school hols & he cant wait.

Its gonna be a very very long day xx

Really sorry to hear that. It's horrible having to say goodbye, I hope he understands why. *hugs* for you

Big (((hugs))).

Hugs to you

Thanks girls. It is so so hard, I can't even explain it.

I wouldnt care, I dont believe he even wants the kids, hes just doing it to spite me, but doesnt realise its the kids hes hurting. Its his name on the court order for having custody of them, but they actually live with & are looked after by their aunty. Its a very long story.

Well I suppose I best bite the bullet & get on with it.

Thanks for the hugs, i really need them just now xxx

Aww that really is rotten. I was so lucky in getting care, custody and control of my children, my ex not even being granted visiting rights, and as he was killed in a RTA when the baby was only four months old, I never even had the worry that he might apply to the Court again.

Lots of
coming your way xx

Poor you, Bev...... sending you lots of hugs honey....

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I'm so sorry you're having a rotten time - lots of hugs coming your way.. x x x

I feel for you, have some (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))) from us Sorry I'm late in hugging ya's but I'm sure you could do with some when you get back home. I hope you've stayed out of all the trouble on your way up there too!

My heart goes out to you. Thought I was going to lose my youngest two earlier this year as their Dad was trying to get residency, thankfully tho they stayed with me.
What age are your children? xc