It's the money spent replacing chewed things - sky remotes, mobile phones, a carpet (+underlay!!), kitchen lino, couple of pairs of crocs etc..
The worry when they are not well and they can't tell you what is wrong
No more lying in bed til lunchtime
Being covered in dog hair most of the time and saying "sorry for the smell of dog" every time I take a colleague/client in my car.
Spending months getting a perfect recall for it to disappear when he hits his teenager phase
But then..
Waking up with Hamish cuddled in between me and hubby
Coming in after a really guff day at work to that waggy bum and a present (how did he know I wanted a tugger!?)
Making me go out on days when I feel like I want to hide in my bed
Cuddling me like a people!
The unconditional love and companionship
The understanding between you and other dog owners - that some people just don't get
There's just nothing like it and it certainly isn't easy (or cheap) but I don't know where i'd be without him.
I found this poem a while ago and it sums it up for me..
Just a Dog
From time to time, people tell me, "lighten up, it's just a dog," or, "that's a lot of money for just a dog." They don't understand the distance traveled, the time spent, or the costs involved for "just a dog."
Some of my proudest moments have come about with "just a dog." Many hours have passed and my only company was "just a dog," but I did not once feel slighted.
Some of my saddest moments have been brought about by "just a dog," and in those days of darkness, the gentle touch of "just a dog" gave me comfort and reason to overcome the day.
If you, too, think it's "just a dog," then you will probably understand phases like "just a friend," "just a sunrise," or "just a promise." "Just a dog" brings into my life the very essence of friendship, trust, and pure unbridled joy. "Just a dog" brings out the compassion and patience that make me a better person.
Because of "just a dog" I will rise early, take long walks and look longingly to the future. So for me and folks like me, it's not "just a dog" but an embodiment of all the hopes and dreams of the future, the fond memories of the past, and the pure joy of the moment.
"Just a dog" brings out what's good in me and diverts my thoughts away from myself and the worries of the day.
I hope that someday they can understand that it's not "just a dog" but the thing that gives me humanity and keeps me from being "just a human."
So the next time you hear the phrase "just a dog." just smile, because they "just don't understand."