Well done Enjoy your freedom

Hon, I'm delighted to hear that you've made this very brave step, but you now have to make another.....

Cut all contact with him - no texts, phone calls, visits - if you don't, you are wasting your precious time, as he WILL wheedle his way back into your life and take you over once again.

Enjoy being your own woman, and kick this loser to the kerb!

Please......?

i've also found the power of a letter recently hun. and like you, it allowed me to explain things in a way i would have never bin able had i been talking to them. it also gave me time to actually think about what i exactly wanted to say to them, rather than trying to work out, on the spot, they best way to phrase something so it didn't come out wrong. as it would have done as emotions were running high at the time.

i'm glad youv'e taken a step forward its 1 of those things where you know, deep down, that it wasn't right to say with them. and after a few days, you'll feel like a new woman without the weight of a failing relationship on your shoulders. throw yourself into as many activities as you can, and show him what he lost because i'm sure he's aware that the responsibility lies with him.

proud to stay, after the intital call after he had read the letter, i havent spoke to him at all

Good for you!! You're doing well...keep going hun xx

Be careful - I started going out with a bloke with a pointer who i'd seen knocking about the fields and it was the most difficult relationship i've ever had

Well done though Clo, you'll soon wonder why you didnt do it ages ago!

Just wanted to wish you well with the rest of your life. Always move forward.

thanks everyone

ive just applied for two equine apprenticeships this morning, really hope i get one of them! hopefully will be driving soon, putting in for my theory when i get paid, and shouldnt be too long before i have my test. hopefully daph will be mated when she comes into season, so im going to be busy busy busy

That's the spirit honey.... you go, girl!

x0x

applied for 5 apprenticeships in equine, and some of them have 2 positions, so heres hoping i get one

just need to get my driving sorted now, but lessons are so expensive!!!

still get a bit down sometimes, but i need to do what i want for me at the minute, and no one else, so men are out of the picture for a while!