ok but yeah you are right, hes trying to make me feel guilty.

ive got a lot to do keep me busy at the minute, working my normal hours, and then the dogs, and im also helping rear a orphaned foal, so with all that there isnt much time so sit and dwell on things.

I have been single for years now and I love it. Don't get me wrong. I was with a fantastic bloke who thought he wanted a break, realized he did'nt and when he came back got a shock as I liked being single to much.

Be on your own and be selfish. Have fun. AND. There is always the bloke on The Cloud with the pointer. The doberman bloke is a right dish too. Go find him. LOL xx

Well done you, you have made the big step, it was very brave of you

Take time to enjoy being you and not you and him

Never easy, but you made the right choice! By the sound of it you have more than enough to keep yourself occupied!

Good luck hun, be yourself and love it x

Aww Bless ya! *Hugs*

You've done the right thing Don't let him lay the guilt trip on either!

Maybe if you don't contact him, he may just realise what he had..........

Just because he texts you does not mean you have to reply. Just ignore him.
One guy binned me then made this hugh effort trying to justify himself by explaining why. I was'nt interested and told him to go away and get over himself.

From what I have picked up from your other posts, it sounds like you have had doubts for a long time now so you have done the right thing.

Enjoy single life, I loved it!!

thanks everyone. i do love this guy to pieces, but loving someone doesnt always mean its right. i know in ways why we are wrong for each other.

im a busy bee at the minute so im sure i wont think about it too much. think the worst of it will be this weekend when nana is away, because i hate being in the house on my own.

and yes i may go find the lovely dishy dog walking men up the cloud

Aw babes...well done for being so brave to make that decision. I think you did the right thing by writing it all down. That way you have time to think what you want to say. Face to face...your emotions run high and things come out wrong.
Just keep strong hun, you are worth so very much more. Big hugs to you xxxxx