I have to say I understand why your daughter takes it to heart.

I remember being knocked from BIS one time as the judge thought it should go to an adult, not a 13 year old.

Just tell your daughter not to worry and always look foreward. One day she'll come up against the same judge and then she'll show em!!

The JH ring can be viscious as well. I have to say unless its a good day and my dog is well trained I almost never go JH.