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Originally Posted by
Gnasher
As for your last paragraph, you bet he was !! Wouldn't you Mish? Come on, be fair, of course he was scared. That Shadow was a big dog - and Cesar had made a bad mistake, and he knew it. Have you never ever made a mistake with a dog? I am sure you have never kicked a dog, but have you never lost your temper with a dog, or realised that a particular course of action you took was completely the wrong one? I have lost my temper even with Tai, bless his heart, he is a dear sweet boy but he can be terribly irritating sometimes. He has a horrible habit of huffing and puffing and panting and sighing if he thinks his walk is overdue. It's not because he is desperate to go to loo, it's just he is impatient to go - it sounds trivial, but believe me when you are on the phone to clients, it is very distracting and very irritating, and more than once I have rounded on him and said if you don't b. well stop puffing, I'll clock you one. I never have of course, but the threat of violence is more than clear in my voice, and it is not good, and I feel terrible afterwards.
I am not insinuating you would ever threaten your dogs Mish with violence, before you get all crinkly with me, I am just pointing out that Cesar made a mistake ... and he got bitten for his pains, and jolly good thing too. I just wish I could find that transcript of the interview with him about it ... it may be on my other computer, I haven't got time now to look for it, but will try to do so tonight, because it was very interesting, what he said about wolf dogs, how he had got a lot of learning to do and was going to be linking up with some wolf dog chap in the States to get some guidance and training because more and more he was being asked to sort out wolf dogs with problems.
Yes I agree we are all human and I am sure we all loose the rag sometimes. As a friend heard on a seminar (cant rem who by) 'we have to treat dogs as dogs, and we have to let them treat us like humans, and being only human it means we will sometimes do something unpredictable, but if most of the time we are kind and fair then the dogs will forgive us'
As for the Shadow episode being wrong - yes I totaly agree, but I dont see CM at the end of the episode saying that he had made a mistake, that I would be v happy with him for being big enough to say - nope that episode was aired as an example of his training methods - he looked pleased with himself at the end because he had won - although I believe what both dogs learnt in that show is not good at all (the Collie that he let shadow lunge at finnished the episode with its tail between its legs - his response 'is your dog always like that with its tail tucked up?' and the owner 'NO!'
Originally Posted by
Wysiwyg
I think somehow i missed this in the thread,
that is sad and another CM casualty apparently.
Benmcfuzzylugs, what did you say to the owners?
Wys
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TBH I havent really had a chance to speak to her yet, she was mortified but I was more worried about getting Mia away to the vets as blood was pouring from her mouth and the owner was on a nightshift last night so we will meet up today hopefully. She put Lucy away and came to see me in tears but I just had to get Mia dealt with. I am not angry at her - these things happen and she thought she was doing the right thing as its what she has seen on the TV and its how everyone else round here treats their dogs. Of course also 'there but for the grace of god go I' I have a reactive dog, it could have just as easily been blood pouring from Lucy as Mia, although Mia was on her back and screaming she was in no way submitting.I met Storms owner and was talking to him so that how I knew what was going on.
and for the Alpha roll fans
Lucy jumped on Mia and pinned her on her back - that is the first time I have ever seen a dog actually put another on its back and it was NOT a nice thing at all. Lucy was not dominating or being calm - she was going in for the kill and Mia was in no way submitting, she was screaming and fighting for her life (there are a couple of bites on Lucys nose so she was fighting back - but not enough to do too much damage)
So if that is the real life situation when the dogs use that behaviour then take a proper think about what the dogs really think CM is doing to them when him, a total stranger takes them, in a stressed state, usually surronded by the things the fear - and pins them, by force, to the floor