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Originally Posted by
Ailsa1
Sounds like the woman totally over reacted, perhaps having had a bad experience in the past??? Who knows???
All our dogs can have 'off' days.
The issue of dogs approaching other dogs when out is such a delicate area. Lately I've been there with Saturn, he's over friendly and his recall is c**p when there's another dog, so he's been being walked onlead (flexi) and I've been keeping his attention on me in the park. I've been telling him to 'leave it' when he sees another dog, but i have to say , it's been the owners of small dogs that have allowed their dogs to come and have a sniff at him. It's been totally infuriating to be honest as every time they've done it they've undermined the training I've already done. It's made me really cross that I've had to ask so many people to call their dogs back when it's obvious what I'm doing...I say the leave it command very firmly and clearly and these owners seem oblivious....not good or fun or fair. I really try hard to keep my lot away from dogs on lead when we are in the park and generally do with my old guys, part of the reason saturn has been on limited frreedom is that I couldn't keep him away from them and that's so not fair for anyone.
You don't know how a dog is when it's onlead, it could look friendly but then when your dog gets close it could attack...best to steeer clear...
The woman in this case did totally over react, but you don't know what's happened in the past...
That's just it...I think we all want to go outside and have the world shape around us.
I want to go out and train my dogs and be left alone.
Sometimes I want to let them off lead for a good run and like them to be able to play.
I guess the main thing to remember is that sometimes things arn't going to completly slot in with what we want at that particular time.
If I want to train my dogs on lead where they can see other dogs I will do it in an area where it may be fairly near to the road or something that way they get all the distractions and sights of other dogs and people but the chances are fairly slim for an offlead dog to bound up to us.
If I want my dogs to get a nice long run I'll take em into the heart of the forest where hopefully it isn't very busy or to near families etc.
Also for example if my dog had just had an op and I didn't want it getting jumped all over I would give it road side walks, again, less chance of any off lead dog
Sometimes I think we have to put effort into make sure things go more our way rather than just expecting everything to revolve around us (which is not remotely directed at you Ailsa, just a follow on to your post)
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I have been on all sides of the coin and try my best to shape my own situation. I always think of others before myself and hope to have the same respect back, even when I am not 100% perfect, in return I like to offer other people the same leeway...It makes things so much friendlier. It's a subject close to my heart because before I got dogs I thought there could be nothing better than a nice walk but since having them I have witnessed people acting similar to how they do with 'road rage'...there is just no reason for people to be so stressed out and fired up. None of us should ever have to stoop to slanging matches, I hate them.