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Originally Posted by
Pidge
Guys
Just a quick note re the ''fun'' part. Have any of you seen my pictures of all the fun walks we do and the swimming and the different places and experiences we explore? That puppy couldn't have more of a fun life!
I do think there is a tendency for a) people to mainly post about the problems (like I have) and b) people on forums to only read and pay interest to the problems.
Anyway, I understand it's confusing for people to give advice when they don't know the dog or the owner as it is just a forum with typed words after all.
Pidge
I think after the number of threads you have started on here many of them in what appeared to be desperation culminating in this one, people feel they know quite a bit about the dog and the owner.
It is only a few days ago that you posted that Woody had a serious problem and you said ''were scared it is going end in tears if you know what I mean'' and ''he won't be rehomable' which sounded pretty serious to me.
You also posted..
we're now having to face the harsh reality that Woody has some generic/genetic behaviour issues that are slowly getting worse.
We're doing everything we can and have the best professional help and advice available but all now agree that he is unusually hyper active and is showing classic signs of aggression.
Neither of us are ever going to give up (I mean what choice do we have, he wont be re-homeable!!), but it's so hard to face the reality that there is a chance that what is in him is so strong we wont be able to help him!
I'm taking the business as usual approach but as I sit here listening to him gnawing at the coffee table, even though he's had walks and play and food and water and rest and mental games I just want to cry inside!!
Behaviourists that are helping us and friends who are very expert in rescue springers.
I hope so although I can't help but worry now that even the experts are saying we have our hands full and that there is clearly something in him that is causing this.
I am NOT giving up, ever,
but I do worry so much that despite all our efforts and hard work we might not be able to help him.
We are doing all we can, there is always more to do and clearly things we have done wrong (inadvertently)
but I'm so scared it's going end in tears if you know what I mean.
I was amazed that any of your 'expert advisors' who are experienced with dogs would ever consider this puppy has 'generic behavioural issues' or any really serious problems . I actually don't agree that there is anything particularly unusual in Woody's behaviour, he sounds like a typical Springer puppy to me and no worse than the many other Springer pups (and other breeds) I have known.
I think sometimes people just don't realise what hard work some puppies can be, they see normal (if somewhat exaggerated behaviour in the case of some puppies) as behavioural problems .
It can take months and months to get anywhere with some puppies, one day will be good and you think you are getting somewhere then the next day a new problem will arise, when this happens you grit your teeth and stand firm in the knowledge it will pass if you handle it correctly.
Zak my sons springer is 15 months now and has been
very difficult to train but not for one moment did anyone consider he had 'serious behavioural issues' (he certainly has a degree of obsessive compulsive behaviour which I attribute to being a working dog in home enviriment) or contemplate anything other than using time and patience to get him through the difficult stages of being a puppy and a young adult.
I would say many of Woody's 'serious behavioural problems' are down to people not understanding his needs and giving him the wrong messages . Take the aggression, this often starts with puppies because people do some small thing like removing food from a puppy who may be a bit unsure so tries to protect what is his, a natural instinct required for self preservation. If this is handled incorrectly what begins as a minor problem can grow to be something more serious, but is is not unusual behaviour given certain circumstances.
Pidge
I think you need to stop thinking of Woody as some delinquent puppy. I am sure the problems he has are down to his inherited traits as a working breed and people not understanding how to handle him.
A lot of puppy training is 90% using common sense and seeing the puppy for what it is, a small animal which doesn't have the ability to reason, doesn't speak our language and can easily misunderstand what is required of it.