Spot: hi there. I did not say that I was too old to learn.
You are NEVER too old, too wise, or too experienced to learn. What I did say is that I dislike intensely being told what to do in the form or manner in which we are discussing.
Viz: if you want to adopt this male dog, you must contractually agree to chop his bits off, willy nilly (no pun intended
). Unless there was a medical reason for this, or at least a behavioural issue so severe that castration was the only option, then I would not agree to castrate the dog, and the dog would therefore remain homeless.
I DO agree that dogs need discipline ... not physical painful discipline of course, but Cesar-type discipline of calm assertive energy ... AND lots of love, attention, exercise, good food etc. etc. Firm but fair discipline results in a healthy dog ... (and incidentally, a healthy child, although I know you don't want to compare dogs and children :smt002 ).
No, I most certainly do not disagree with breeder or rescue centre contracts. I merely dislike being told by a breeder or a rescue centre that I MUST chop bits off my future dog whether or not it is necessary, and I MUST follow, or not follow, a particular training regieme. Now, no breeding without health checks is of course an excellent clause to have in a contract, and if there is a fault in the dog, such as poor hips, soft ear, whatever is considered a fault for that breed, then yes, no breeding should be contracted upon. I'm not totally unreasonable !!
I was not comparing dogs to children, just merely presenting an analogy to try and show how and why I am so averse to chopping dogs goolies off for no good reason!
Now, here is one thing we DO agree upon : children are DEFINITELY not human until, IMO, they reach at least 20 !! Give me dogs any day. As difficult as Hal was, he was a million light years away from being a fraction as difficult as my daughter, now aged nearly 21 ! But I digress. (As far as men having the snip goes, I have no feelings on the matter ... that is their personal choice. But a poor rescued dog has no choice, he has to go with the flow !)
IF I eventually take on this or any other rescue, or any dog at all for that matter, I may or may not breed from him. He would have to have all the usual health checks - hips, eyes, etc. etc. and a host of other considerations made etc.
Regarding the assessment of a rescue centre of a particular dog, of course I would listen to them regarding all aspects of the dog ... his health, his background, his diet, his temperament, why he had been rehomed, etc. etc. What an arrogant a**e I would be if I took no notice of what they said. However, this is a far cry from slavishly following what they say is right for the dog in terms of castration and training methods.
I am an intelligent, grown woman with 40 years experience of owning and living with dogs. I will form my own opinion about whether or not a dog should undergo an operation involving a general anaesthetic, and what training method I will use, if any, with the dog. This is not arrogance, or being a know-all, it is common sense.
No, I do not think you are being patronising Spot. You are stating your opinion, a valid opinion, and one to which you are more than entitled. I couldn't agree more about old dogs learning new tricks. Every day I learn something new, have to swallow beliefs I have held for all my life (I have that sort of life, don't ask, you'll wish you had never asked, its that bad!
) I have never claimed to be an expert, indeed, have gone out of my way to state that I am NOT an expert on dogs, nor ever will be if I live to be 100.
But like you, I hold firm beliefs too, and certainly in the case of Hal, CM's calm assertive energy worked a treat, so did the eh noise, the tsst, the not saying his name when rebuking him, I never had to pin him down so I have no experience of that, but I nudged him many times with the flat of my hand on his shoulder when he was rumbling about something, and the effect was instant. Walking to heel, even off lead, was magically achieved, recall whereas not instant, did happen within 2 minutes instead of about 5, and although a bit meandery, was pretty good.
CM's methods work brilliantly on my daughter's stroppy cat as well !!