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11-09-2015, 10:37 PM
Originally Posted by Dibbythedog View Post
Gnasher , I think that's a great idea to cycle. I thought of that with Pip JRT but I'd need a bike with stabilisers or a tricycle.

I think its better to say walk on as you suggested rather than just saying no, as it gives direction . Its not easy with a powerful young dog , I'm glad I have small dogs!
ha ha!! I'd like to see that!!

I really like the command "walk on!" it sounds so positive and full of hope and joy ... Yet assertive at the same time.
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11-09-2015, 10:47 PM
Was the aggression present before the dog trainer was brought in?

How is the lead pulling/excitement being handled?
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12-09-2015, 02:44 AM
Hi Myrsky!

Some excellent posts up above! 'Listen to Gnasher' may becoming something of a mantra of mine... but seriously, very good observations there and from everyone else.

From everything I've read from you, I think you're an extremely observant person. You're pinpointing exactly what your trigger situations are with Myrsky. Keep doing that. There's no One True Rulebook, and Myrsky is the best guide you will ever have for Myrsky. That said...

What you're seeing with him is 100% normal. He's still a puppy-- he will be probably until he's about 3-- bigger dogs mature more slowly, and some more slowly than others-- but he's becoming mature enough to handle himself and he knows it. He is gaining adult confidence and matters of adult importance are now important to him. You'll probably find that he reacts more strongly to intact males, whatever the size, even if they are calm and well-behaved. Well, he can smell them a mile off. Perhaps literally. They are of great interest to him-- as rivals, as someone needing to be put in their place, as someone who may be about to try to put one over on him-- so if he reacts strongly, that is to be expected.

As for same sex aggression: yup, it's a thing, and you should expect to see it manifesting at about this age or earlier. It is more common in Spitz type dogs, though can be an issue with any dog (interestingly, some same-sex aggression only occurs between same-sex Spitz-types: a male Akita might happily cohabitate with a male mutt, though he might not put up with a male Husky in the same room). But you have to look at the history. Malamutes and Huskies are both sledding breeds. Sled dogs don't run in nice neat couples. They run in packs. You don't divide your sled team down the middle. The dogs have to get along with each other. So you have to ask yourself: how do they do it? How do all these same-sex aggressive dogs manage to live in these tight-knit packs 14 or more strong without ripping each other's throats out?

Malamutes are championed as laid-back, easygoing gentle giants, and they are. They tend to be remarkably calm, gentle, sweet natured dogs. Huskies are a bit more volatile, but they have many of the same characteristics. But here's a trick, and here's the secret: it is because they understand order, and they don't put up with nonsense. They Do. Not. Tolerate. It.

A sled dog in a pack is in kind of a family of that pack. They know all the members. They know their place, they know their role, and it's all good. A Husky (or a Myrsky) in a dog park with all his good friends is much the same. And in the same way, they will look to maintain order, or to establish it. Watch carefully what Myrsky is doing. Is he being aggressive? Or is he addressing potential transgressors? Either way, you'll have to stop him if it looks like the situation is going to get out of hand, but look and listen and pay attention, as you already do so well. Listen to Myrsky.

Can you train it out of him? Probably. Should you? That's a different question. You don't want him to be aggressive, that's a given. But what might come across as aggression may be a teenaged attempt at righting what Myrsky can clearly see as a wrong. If he has a strong organisational instinct, that can be a very powerful and very positive thing.

If so (or even if not), then the absolute best thing you can do is to keep asserting yourself. Watch out for those trigger situations and when they come up, put yourself into Big Mum Mode. You are in charge, you are handling the situation-- but it's not just you. Myrsky's here too and he knows perfectly well at this point that you can't smell anything to save your life-- but you're the one to make the decisions here. Shoulders back, head high. Mum voice on. If you are displeased with his behaviour, tell him so. If you need to avoid a situation, do it in a no-nonsense way. You are the boss.

You're going to have to do half his work for him, too. Myrsky is going to see all other dogs, irrespective of how their owners treat them as *dogs*. That means that oofie-moofie-fluffiekins over there, the dyed pink whatever-is-fashionable-mix with the dog shoes that match his owners' handbag, is as much a dog as Myrsky is. Same for people with those big, bad-ass fighting dogs like Akita Inus who just want a scrap (Akita Inu owner here, and no, he doesn't want a scrap; he just wants a carrot, thank you). I wish I were making this up. You are going to have to read owners. Myrsky can't do this one for you, I'm afraid.

I admit to channeling Laszlo, my beloved Mal/Wolfie/GSD, for some of this post.
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12-09-2015, 10:00 AM
Strangechilde, that is probably the BEST post I have ever read on Dogsey! Excellently put, I heartedly endorse everything you say.
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12-09-2015, 10:01 AM
Lazlo??? Do tell more - don't believe I have ever heard mention of him before? Sounds intriguing - a lovely mix!
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12-09-2015, 10:11 AM
Agree, great post and says it all. Very sadly the average pet owner has no idea what is going on ànd your dog is immediately classed as aggressive. I had 2 poodles really giving my dogs grief once, owner made no attempt to stop them, eventually the inevitable happened and the girls remonstrated, then my dogs became the ones at fault
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12-09-2015, 11:43 AM
Originally Posted by Chris View Post
Was the aggression present before the dog trainer was brought in?

How is the lead pulling/excitement being handled?
Good points . I would like to know what advice the trainer has given as this affects behaviour too. We really don't know the full story.


Nature and nurture combine to affect behaviour, and usually its more than just one thing. genes, hormones , fear periods, social status, and in the enviroment , was the dog attacked as a young pup and I believe Myrsky was, how does the owner react etc. , how is the behaviour dealt with.


I think Myrsky's mum and dad are putting in 100% effort into him and he has had a great start and with the right advice he should come through this .
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13-09-2015, 07:21 AM
Wow, Thank you all so much. Very interesting posts by Strangechild and gnasher My Partner and I were happy to read all this.
I figured out and I actually can understand, that Myrsky reacts to bad manners from dogs who just barks and have no boundaries from their owners.But when this happens, we just continue walking and ignoring the other dogs, then I speak nicely not angry with him, and reward when we passed. This works best. To your questions:
Myrsky started with his "aggression" 2 month ago, our Trainer we have only seen 4 times until now.She works mostly on his pulling and the patience (because this is related for myrsky) he doesn't pull on leash when their is no final destination (like the dog park).At least a little pulling towards smells is easy to correct. The dog trainer calls him back with treats, when he starts to pull.He sits down he gets the treat. Basically he has to stay focussed. This involves a lot of treats and sits/stops. But it works, you can calm him down with sit and get his attention with the right treats.
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13-09-2015, 07:29 AM
Oh and yes he was "attacked" when he was 2 and a half month old.But nothing bad happened because fortunately the dog was muzzled. And I took him quickly in my arms.But he recovered quickly and he was never afraid of dogs after. He was always happy to meet other dogs. and very confident.
One thing what might have changed him, was that he spend 1 week in the "breeders" place when we have been on holidays. After he came back, he was very excited and was pulling much more.He had contact only to his mum and dad and the other dog of the family. No other dogs during that time.
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13-09-2015, 06:34 PM
I'm glad he recovered quickly.

Bear in mind though that with incidence like that, even though a dog isn't physically hurt, it can be very traumatic and bad memories can be easy triggered at later age when it's larger and more ready and able to tackle another dog.

Anyway, It sounds like you have found a solution that works for you .

ETA this is what you originally wrote -

"Just today happening I have to tell you guys something.... not nice !
We were on the way back home to our flat 15 m away from door,someone came out of the house next to with a (I would say boxer breed but whatever) the dog wore a muzzle, saw us and the owner lost the leash, the dog attacked our puppy and he was craying I was just around 2 sec. to late to pick him up, it happened so fast. I tried to get and pick my baby (he cried and screamed) tried to push the dog away (the owner too) until dog let go and my puppy ran to the door in panic. I took him on my arm and went home. It was so terrifying and my biggest nightmare. "

"Oh damned ! Just went out and we saw the dog from the attack, this time nothing happened but myrsky shut down and wanted to go home. "
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