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Originally Posted by
newboyjack
Now hes a big dog with a powerful jaw and she has yelped a few times as they are always off lead when it happens I cannot pyhsically stop him.
If you can't stop him then it may be worth keeping him on-lead, or on a longline for now.
How long have you had Jack? Casper used to do similar behaviour with Kiki initially but he settled down and got the idea that she didn't like it. If your Spaniel won't tell him off herself though, he may not be gettign the hint (Kiki will tell Casper off, not violently but quite firmly). He can sometimes be a bit OTT with other dogs and try to play with them in a similar way too so when we're out he's either on a longline or muzzled (or both), depending on where we are, who we're with, etc. The longline stops him being able to run over to strange dogs and scare them with this behaviour, the muzzle stops him being able to grab them with his mouth - I can let him off in certain situations and know he won't run off or pester dogs too much but I tend to keep the muzzle on as a precaution and to break the habit of playing this way.
I would advise against a shock collar. I think it's far more effective to teach a dog correct behaviour, rather than punish bad behaviour. Also, you can cause the dog to have bad associations with certain situations or objects.
For example, if you were a bit friendly with people and kept giving everyone a big bear hug every time you met them, and then giving them random hugs throughout the day, how would you feel if you were suddenly receiving a shock every time you went to hug someone? You'd probably stop hugging them after a few times when you realised what was causing it, but would you have stopped because you realised it's over the top behaviour, or would you have stopped because it made it painful to do so? You may even start to feel wary approaching people incase that triggers a shock. Alternatively, you might not figure out that the shock happens when you hug people - maybe you went to hug someone and a car drove past at the same time, and zap! 10 minutes later you go to hug someone else, and you hear a car beep its horn, zap! You're walking home, see a friend, give them a big old bear hug to say hello and a car happens to pull up in the parking spot next to you, zap! Yikes - these cars are nasty things, they keep giving you electric shocks! You become wary and on edge around cars now, incase they give you another horrid zap. In dogs, electric collars can cause a dog to become wary of other things that happen to be present at the time of the shock, and this can end up causing more problems than it fixes.
However, throw away the electric collar. You go to work, you're about to hug someone and find yourself stopped short - you're tethered to someone who's stopped you going over to hug your colleague. You're a bit confused but you carry on your business. Go to hug someone else, and again, you find yourself prevented from doing it. After a few more times, you're then taught to give a handshake instead, and when you give your next colleague a handshake, they give you a fiver. The next handshake earns you another few quid, or a chocolate, or a compliment - you discover that this behaviour is not only rewarding, but also allows you to interact with people without being pulled away by your tether. It soon clicks that your hugging behaviour results in a lack of freedom and interaction, but a calm handshake gets it back. Voila, you've learnt an alternative behaviour and you've not had a single shock.
Prevent your dog from practising his bad behaviour - use a form of retraint if necessary, take him on off-lead walks by himself to expel his energy, you want to break the habit. Then slowly re-allow interaction, but in your terms, not his. You want to re-teach him the polite way to interact with other dogs. You might find it benefits him to meet other dogs with the same rules in place - longline or lead to keep him in control initially, and not allowing the rude behaviour, so he learns these behaviour is a widespread "rule" - I walk Casper with another member on here's dog and they're both learning better manners with each other by being kept on longlines and being praised for calm interactions, and not allowed to practice the bouncing, scruffing and splatting that they wanted to do. We're getting there, less and less rude behaviour each walk
Have you looked into having a behaviourist come and help you? Even one initial assessment might give you a good starting block to work from.
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