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26-09-2010, 12:24 PM
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dominance
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domˇiˇnance[ dómmənənss ]NOUN
1. power exerted over others: control or command wielded over others
2. first importance: prime importance, effectiveness, or prominence
3. genetics expression of genetic feature: the property of a gene that causes a parental characteristic it controls to occur in any offspring
4. ecology preponderance of one species: the preponderance of a single plant or animal species in a specific community or over a specific period

I rest my case.

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26-09-2010, 12:32 PM
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dominance
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domˇiˇnance[ dómmənənss ]NOUN
1. power exerted over others: control or command wielded over others
2. first importance: prime importance, effectiveness, or prominence
3. genetics expression of genetic feature: the property of a gene that causes a parental characteristic it controls to occur in any offspring
4. ecology preponderance of one species: the preponderance of a single plant or animal species in a specific community or over a specific period

I rest my case.

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So all those tricks you teach your dogs in order for you to advertise them for hire, to procure money for yourself, is the result of you permanently dominating your dogs to get them to perform?

Gees, Im sure glad my dog have a relaxing life, and arent bullied like that all the time, must be misery for them.
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26-09-2010, 12:48 PM
Originally Posted by Ripsnorterthe2nd View Post
It's far from a problem as he'll only do it once or twice before continuing to play with his new doggy friend, but twice now I've had people say "Oooh that's dominance that is, he's trying to dominate that dog!".

Now Oscar is anything but dominant (I nearly choked on me sucky sweet the first time I heard that remark through trying not to burst out laughing ) and as far as I'm concerned he's just a horny little beggar at the moment!

So, is a dog that has the occasional hump automatically trying to dominate? I don't think so personally, but will be interested to hear peoples opinions.
Rips I have my own take on this.

I believe dogs have a number of 'inbuilt behaviour patterns' that they use at certain times depending on the circumstances, humping is one of them .

I think dogs sometimes display these behaviour patterns inappropriately maybe as the result of being over excited or as a displacement activity.

Oscar is probably very excited when 'playing with his doggy friends' as described above and in his excitement he humps.

Zak my son's springer (hyper active from working lines) is the least 'dominant' dog you could ever meet, he will hump his cushion then lay down with it between his paws and suck it like a baby.
I think this behaviour began as a displacement activity when Zak was a puppy and became a habit.

So in answer to your original question..
''is a dog that has the occasional hump automatically trying to dominate''
No it is not...
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26-09-2010, 12:52 PM
Originally Posted by Ben Mcfuzzylugs View Post
Yes we can watch our dogs and empithise with them and understand when they are happy,sad, hot cold excited stressed
all measurable understandable emotions
we can look and say whenever X happens then Y seems to happen
But we cannot just write down all the complex behaviours of dog to dog and dog to human interactions in terms of only dominance - and too many people do just that
How many people have come on here talking about their dog being dominant when it showed its teeth at them when they asked it to get off the sofa?? Only to find out later the dog was in pain
Dominance is too simplisitc a term that people use for everything without any understanding or empathy

and I think there is a world of difference between a parent/teacher and a dominator
guide, explain, teach - all good
the problem with dominating is it assumes the dog knows how to behavie and so is being bad if it deviates from the complex set of rules you have made up

Gnasher, your view makes me really sad, it is the reason I and many people working with difficult dogs get so many evil looks
Mias behaviours towards other dogs has NOTHING to do with my leadership skills
It has to do with her personality and her history with other dogs
If you are a bit scared in a situation you might follow a strong leader
But if you have a total phobia and are having a compleate pannic attack then you cannot see outside yourself and the situation to follow anyone!
I'm sorry I make you feel sad, not intended at all! As long as I don't make my dogs feel sad, I won't change the way I treat them, love them and live with them. Ben is a DIFFICULT dog with a capital D, so I am no stranger to DD's! For the first 3 years of his life, he was kept in the back garden on a running line whilst his owners presumably went out to work. He was rescued by a lovely lady, who advertised for a new forever home for him on the internet, and I happened to see the post and mentioned Ben (his name has been changed) to a friend of our's and the rest, as they say, is history. We come into the story because our friend had a terrible accident 2 or 3 months ago and had to be rushed into hospital. His boss had agreed to look after Ben, but Ben was attacking his JRT's and he rang us to ask if we could look after Ben until his owner came out of hospital. It turns out that Ben is son of Hal, which of course makes him very special to us, so when Ben's owner asked if we could keep him, we said yes. Ben is very challenging, he is aggressive with other dogs, both male and female, he is unsocialised and obviously has Issues from his previous appalling start in life. He is spoiled and wilful, and if you try to stop him doing what he wants to do, he turns on you and mouths you sufficiently hard to bruise although not to draw blood. We take him and Tai everywhere with us, he has to behave. We take him into pubs and always there is trouble because Ben will growl and show aggression towards some other dogs. When he does, Tai then starts to bark at Ben, telling him off, which sometimes results in the two fighting. We have persisted in taking him out and about and to pubs every weekend, and gradually he is becoming more socialised and less aggressive, both with us and other dogs. We don't live in the past, and feel sorry for him, and say there, there, he is aggressive because he was treated so badly. We have put that behind us, and Ben is expected to behave according to our pack rules, we make no allowance for his previous trauma, although we of course understand and accept it. This is not being dominant, this is being the best possible owner for a traumatised dog. I have decided that I too hate the word "dominant". I do not dominate my dog, I am assertive, I am a good pack leader. I set the rules, such as they are, and they obey them. They feel safe and secure because they know that they do not need to be assertive, they can relax safe in the knowledge that alpha male and alpha female are in control. A place for everything, and everything in its place.

Dogs do not WANT to exert assertiveness over us, but sometimes they are forced to by what they view as weak owners who give in to them, pander to them, allow them to do what they want. The dogs view such owners as being weak and unable to defend them and defend the "pack", so therefore they start to get "dominant", stroppy and assertive and display behaviour similar to Ben's. He used to turn on you when you groomed him because he hated it, but now he will lie quietly and not keep mouthing my hand. He still hates his tail brushed, but I just do it very very gently and ignore his aggression. He gives up when he sees he is not frightening or intimidating me, and relaxes, safe in the knowledge that all is well with his new world, his humans are in control!
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26-09-2010, 12:58 PM
Originally Posted by Ben Mcfuzzylugs View Post
Or the human looses the rag and shouts when the dog pulls on the lead when they are in a hurry??

Often BECAUSE of a belief in dominance I see people getting into uness conflicts with their dogs
People assume the dog should just get off the sofa when told - because that shows their dominance - so therefore if the dog dosent get off the sofa they become angry and make that a battle
This makes the dog become MORE defensive if its position because he is now expecting angry human

and at the same time he has not been fully trained what is expected, he is comfy on the sofa and has learnt that showing his teeth gets him to stay in the nice comfy place

Its very easy to train a dog to get off the sofa as a fun trick that they enjoy

When I first got Mia when I asked her to get off the sofa she tensed up and hardened her eyes, I could see a conflict was brewing

I grabbed a handful off treats, chucked them on the floor and asked her to go get them
she happily did
Then the next few days I taught her to get on and off the sofa, made it fun and v rewarding

and I have never had any conflict since

Had I forced her and got angry with her it prob woulndt have taken her long to become a biter
I do not shout or get angry at Ben when he jumps up on our bed, or on our sofa. He is "trying it on" now less and less, but occasionally still jumps up on the bed, such as yesterday morning. I just got out of bed, walked round to the other side, clicked my fingers at him, and said "Ben, down!" and pointed at his bed. He immediately jumped down, and lay down on his bed. No shouting, no anger, just calm, assertiveness. Just a lot of praise for being so obedient.
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26-09-2010, 01:20 PM
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So all those tricks you teach your dogs in order for you to advertise them for hire, to procure money for yourself, is the result of you permanently dominating your dogs to get them to perform?

Gees, Im sure glad my dog have a relaxing life, and arent bullied like that all the time, must be misery for them.
Oh dear Dawn LOL---I still don't feel like 'discussing' anything with you. Bad luck---nice try though.

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26-09-2010, 01:22 PM
Originally Posted by Borderdawn View Post
So all those tricks you teach your dogs in order for you to advertise them for hire, to procure money for yourself, is the result of you permanently dominating your dogs to get them to perform?

Gees, Im sure glad my dog have a relaxing life, and arent bullied like that all the time, must be misery for them.
What a ridiculous post. A Nasty swipe and it doesn't even make sense.

How is training and teaching your dogs tricks a bad thing for them??????
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26-09-2010, 01:23 PM
Originally Posted by Borderdawn View Post
So all those tricks you teach your dogs in order for you to advertise them for hire, to procure money for yourself, is the result of you permanently dominating your dogs to get them to perform?

Gees, Im sure glad my dog have a relaxing life, and arent bullied like that all the time, must be misery for them.
Just to set a record straight (for some reason it seems stuck in a loop)

...our dogs are not taught tricks in order for them to be advertised for hire......

Our dogs are taught varying different things in order to try and enrich their lives....
The fact that, as part of my business, we offer various different dogs to partake in film work, is nothing to do with the training they have already done.

I highly doubt you will attempt to change what you say.....but for film work, a director (or buyer) will contact us, and tell us what they require...if we can help or have a dog able to do that, we will....if not, we pass the query onto someone else who is more likely to be able to help.
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26-09-2010, 01:25 PM
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What a ridiculous post. A Nasty swipe and it doesn't even make sense.

How is training and teaching your dogs tricks a bad thing for them??????
Unfortunately, I think Dawn has said she only ever train her dogs commands, so I am not sure she understands how much fun training can be for the dog or the person.
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26-09-2010, 01:27 PM
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Bad manners and lack of training.
Yes yes and MORE YES. I really see dogs as little different from kids in many ways. You tell your child "turn off the TV" and they scream and yell and throw things. That's bad manners. You tell your dog to get off the sofa and it growls or snaps or bites. That's also bad manners.

There's a very big difference between the idea of dominance (which is based in force) and being a parental figure. I am not "dominant" over my dog. I'm her "parent" and I treat her with the utmost respect. I allow her to make decisions, like allowing her to choose which direction she wants to go on for a walk, or when she'd like to go for a walk. I allow her to come to me ask for things (belly rubs, walks, a game of tug). And she allows me to ask things of her. It's very much a matter of mutual respect and companionship.
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