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Location: Camborne, UK
Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 142
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I know Ive said a lot, and don't want to become a bore. Just wanted to add that I wouldn't be such a fan of him if I didn't truly feel and understand what he is saying. I have experienced communication using energy with a horse, as well as my own dog, and found it humbling, and also a bit sad, because I realise that very few animals out there will ever be noticed in a such a way, even though in their world they are giving out quite clear signals. I'm alwayslearning, and when I first started trying to be calm assertive I was still a bit frustrated, forever nagging my dog, and interpreting her every move as disobedient, and 'dominant.' I am getting better now. I am a 21 year old animal care student, and I have a lurcher who is half German Shepherd. She is very testing, quick, intelligent, cheeky, and has always been virtually untrainable due to her hyperactivity. Training techniques left me feeling worn out and like a complete mug. I have now 'mastered the walk,' and I am astounded how she just trots by my side, when before I was continually offering treats and doing the stop, wait for her to come back to you thing...with no results. She just learnt to pull, stop, walk backward, then turn around and continue pulling.
Anyway today, for the first time I walked all the way to the local woods with her on a loose lead, she didn't even go for a poo or a wee until I stopped and let her. She stopped the sniffing and pulling and just focussed. When I let her off the lead she had an intital run round to let off steam, but when I said 'wait,' when we reached the style into the next field she actually stopped, sat down, ears back and looked at me. I easily took her collar and she let me go over the style first. I felt like singing out loud!! It was the best moment- she actually stopped the loony behavior, just like I always knew she could if she wanted, and looked at me with respect!! I've taught her wait before using treats, and praise but she wouldn't do it. Some people would say 'she doesn't understand,' but I can see in her eyes she does. And today was proof, that training only works if your dog is receptive to you and respect doesn't come by offering treats, it takes the energy of a leader, an alpha. She responded to 'wait' again when it was time to walk home, and I clipped on her lead easily and off we walked with her at my side. This evening she keeps looking at me with this 'thankyou,' look in her eyes, like 'hey, maybe some humans really DO understand...' like she felt she has someone in her world with her now.
Now, maybe a lot of people have naturally biddable, or shy dogs that do not have a lot of interest in leaving their side when off lead. I know a friend who has collie crosses. They've always been sweet and submissive and it made the owner feel very confident and like she could control any dog. She was always telling me what I was doing wrong, telling me I wasn't strict enough, etc which I found very condescending and assuming. Like it was all my fault! The truth is I had one very difficult dog, she was my first dog, and I had really tried to train her using techniques from training books, and online. I'm not stupid and I am sure I had done them right. Now our friend has just adopted a new puppy- a lurcher. And she is having exactly the same problems I have had- loony behaviour, endless energy, nipping, barking, running off....And I think she has come to realise all dogs aren't as easy as her little collie crosses, or the sweet springers she knows next door to her. Notice how what breed people own often affects their view dominance. Owners of border collies or poodles who can be excitable but obedient think it's cruel, but owners of malamutes, German Shepherds for example are more in favour of it (obviously I am generalising, I know there are vast variations within a breed). The fact is, all dogs respond to Cesar's way, but because owners of easy dogs have not owned a dog like the one someone else is having trouble with, like he one who was aggressive in the clip for instance, they imagine that dog as being as innocent as theirs, as though Cesar is storming in there and just unecessarily abusing it.
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