There are some things I find confusing so bear with me...
Originally Posted by
Jessica
I dont quite know what you're talking about here... Presumably you dont show your dogs if thats what you think its like
Im sure it is for others, but we try to make it a fun day out for our dogs. They aren't left on the bench, apart from the pug before her classes. She is in a crate with her bed in so she can get some sleep as she gets very tired. But the others will be out, having a look around the show and in the stalls, we buy them toys and treats there (which they pick themselves!!) and they'll sit with us outside the ring for a while before they go into the ring. Im sure some showdogs have the life you talk of but i can assure you ours dont.
Could she not have had all that by going along with the others as NFC ? The only difference being she would`nt have had a few minutes in the ring...
Same as, [ for instance ], my non-agility dogs go to shows as NFC and do everything my agility dogs does except go in the ring for a total of a few minutes throughout the day.
What i mean about not giving Amber the time she needs, is that i would take her to ringcraft twice a week (pointless if she isn't being shown)
Why pointless ? Did she get no stimulation and socialisation there ? Or why not switch to Obedience instead
If she`s so worky, that would have been a breeze for her as well as being mentally stimulating - maybe you could have got rosettes with her that way instead of the show ring...?
and i had started taking her to an agility class on mondays. I had planned to show her mainly and do a small amount of agility to give her something else to do.
This is what I`m most confused about. Without the preparation of Showing her taking up your time, surely that would have given you
more time to spend on other activities ?
I dont understand why you would have had time to Show, do Ringcraft,
and Agility, but without the Showing side meant you did`nt have the time for other activities ?
I`m really baffled there, my time management skills must be having trouble computing :smt017
She wasn't bought as a pet, i'll be honest about that, she was treated as a pet, she has as much love and attention as we gave the other dogs, but we bought her knowing that if she diudnt make it, as so many of that breed dont, she would be passed on to a more suitable home.
I will be blunt, [ and will probably be severely knuckle rapped for it ] : That, to me, is fundamentally, ethically and morally as wrong as it can be when buying a dog [ imo ].
If anyone anywhere went to a breeder and said that openly while choosing a pup, any breeder not showing that buyer the door along with basic information on the ethics of dog ownership, [ and few choice words to boot ], is utterly unethical if going ahead and selling under such a circumstance.
Breeders who do sell regardless are what I would consider personally to be the sort to avoid at all costs because they clearly do not have their pups best interests as priority in wanting to secure good homes
for life.
If only all breeders were as selective as their pups deserve
I am not at all ashamed of what we did, why should we be? We have ensured Amber has the best life. We could have just sold her to someone to breed for as much as we could get, but like i've said, she deserved better than that. She was ten months old when we rehomed her, i could never subject her to another 12 years+ of being sat at home doing nothing when she was not the type of dog that was happy with that. If you would be willing to do that YOU should be ashamed.
Which goes back to where I got confused. Unless Star Trek watching has befuddled my understanding of time and space, without Showing her you would surely of had
more concentrated time available to give her for other activities, not less....
If this thread was indeed about parting with older dogs once they have "served their purpose" then no, this is not relevant to us.
She won you some rosettes then didnt make the grade for your needs later on so you passed her on. I think its quite relevent but thats just me :smt102
You could give her what she needed
as well as the rigmarole of Showing, but had less time physically avilable without Showing...
Can you see why I`m having trouble understanding the logic ?
We all know the different temperments of our dogs and i could not give Amber what she needed so she went somewhere where she could get all the work and stimulation she needed.
Confused again I`m afraid. You chose to buy a pup of a Working breed - did you not know before you bought her that many dogs of working breeds need a lot of activity and stimulation ?
Did the breeder let you down so badly by not making you aware of this ? I can only assume so as it clearly could not have been discussed while the breeder was deciding if you were right for a pup she bred - along with not discussing the wrongs of the future of a pup as a potential commodity just for the showring
Breeders should not be selling to anyone not intending making a lifetime commitment regardless of a pup not making the grade in some activity or other, imo.
To all potential puppy buyers who may be reading, if the breeder you go to does`nt put the pups future as a priority, I would advise walking away and finding another breeder - or head for a rescue which is where not all but most `not up to it` juvenile pups of all breeds end up