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Westie_N
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23-10-2011, 01:03 PM
Originally Posted by Jackbox View Post
Thats the whole point , its not great, because the dogs will be in the house, and the fact the child's illness is triggered by the dogs, means the dogs should NEVER be allowed in the home, or the garden if the child is playing there.




But the specialist has told KB the condition has nothing to do with the dogs.

No one is judging you for kenneling your dogs, or putting your child first, but it does seem that you have "decided" the dogs are to blame, and thus need to be outside...

But as I have pointed out, to eliminate all reactions to the dogs, no contact can be had, EVER, and in that I ask, is it fair to the dogs to be isolated for the rest of their lives from your family.


P.S, why not before you go and spend hundreds of ££ on kennels , why not send the dogs to boarding kennels for a few weeks, (or relatives) this will give you time to de -dog the house, and see if your child improves, if he does then the question needs to be asked, would the dogs be better off somewhere else, if he does not improve, yo know its not the dogs.
I think this is a very good idea to try. Perhaps for a few weeks, a month or so. Whilst still getting all the allergy tests possible to try and determine what exactly the child is allergic too.
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23-10-2011, 03:59 PM
All I cam say is good luck & hope it helps. Most dogs are adaptable as long as they have love. My Hannah happily lives with me & sleeps on the couch but often when I've been in hospital she's had to go back to her previous mum where she's been kennelled & she is equally happy in both environments. As a child I suffered badly with eczema & grew out of it at 5. My croup was helped by a steamy atmosphere & I grew out of that at 11. Now I only have the hayfever to cope with & very occassional bouts of asthma which are hayfever related. Personally I think you're doing the right thing. Hope it all works out.
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23-10-2011, 04:25 PM
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I was seriously pooing myself about posting this thread, as I was looking for advice on kenneling my dogs. However I did not expect people to be finding me on Face ache, and sending nasty emails, stating that I am an unfit owner, and that I am wrong to make my dogs suffer because of my child.

I have said it before and I will say it again. I love my dogs, I love everything about them, every spare second, every spare penny goes on them. I spend hours training/playing/walking/thinking of new ways to have fun together...

But, that does not even come close to the way I feel for my little boy. He is my world, I carried him for 38 weeks, I gave birth to him, I have nursed him and I have watched him grow from a helpless little baby to the naughty wannabe toddler that his is now.

In that time I have seen him hospitalized three times due to his eczema, and now because of croup (eczema related) and possible asthma. I have had to see my little boy being pumped with drugs, covered with a breathing apparatus, blue lipped, unable to breathe, totally terrified of whats happening to him. Now he is to undergo more testing/xrays and more poking/prodding.
I have had to hold him while he is screaming with the itches, had nights with him with no sleep because he is uncomfortable. I have spent hundreds on private dermatology, natural remedies,on organic cotton clothes, anti scratch clothes... you name we have done it, OH and I simply want to make our son comfortable and not have to suffer...we are tryng every remedy going, and eliminating every possible cause that we can...we will soon be replacing all carpets for wooden/laminate, curtains for blinds, and a leather sofa. Most of his soft toys have been removed, except for Henry bear, whom he cannot sleep without (he is washed daily at 90)

If moving the dogs out doesnt change anything, then at least we have tried it, and no real harm is done. The dogs are not being rehomed.

I was warned Dogsey could be nasty and judgemental...but wow, how dare I try to improve my sons health

KB I am appalled, it is easy for others to say THEIR child had X; or Y helped/did not help their child etc.

EVERY person (and child) is an individual and, as we have seen here, even DOGS have different reactions to foods and treatments which have worked for others.

What people forget is that Asthma can KILL and there are all sorts of degrees of Exzema and Asthma and these can alter with age etc.

You are doing what you think is best of YOUR child and YOUR dogs and that is all ANYONE can reasonably be expected to do.

What anyone else thinks is totally irrelevant as they do not live in YOUR house with YOUR child or YOUR dogs.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion, informed or not, but only YOU know what is best for your kith and kin.

Ignore the nasty ill informed observations by those who do not know the EXACT depth of the medical problem with your child and who are not specialists in this field.

And the best of luck with your household, live long and prosper!
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23-10-2011, 04:44 PM
Originally Posted by Kerriebaby View Post
I was seriously pooing myself about posting this thread, as I was looking for advice on kenneling my dogs. However I did not expect people to be finding me on Face ache, and sending nasty emails, stating that I am an unfit owner, and that I am wrong to make my dogs suffer because of my child.

Have to say, I am deeply disturbed by the way this thread has progressed since I last looked at it.

It's easy for people who are not in the situation to say "Oh I would do this" or "I'd never do that". You don't know what you would do until the circumstances are forced upon you.

KB, I really hope my earlier post isn't one of the ones that upset you. I was trying to offer a little reassurance and hope for you, and I'd hate to think what I said came across as anything other than that. You are trying to do your best for all concerned in a terrible situation, and anyone who can't see that isn't worth worrying about.
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23-10-2011, 05:16 PM
Won't let me give rep SB but I SO agree.

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23-10-2011, 05:18 PM
I am with Rune, Good post SB.

Best of luck with it KB, never easy.
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23-10-2011, 05:48 PM
I wonder if SB has actually read Brundog's posts ( amongst other people's).
Nope it can't hurt putting the dogs out ( if they do adjust, some don't). Worth a try but only in controlled circumstances surely? Example... Keeping the dogs
in during the winter then putting them out in the spring may be deceptive. My eczema and asthma both get worse in the winter because of the dry air and because I tend to catch every cold going ( not tummy bugs though thankfully). It improves for a little while in the spring before the tree pollen starts. Putting my dogs out in spring would therefore give me a false idea about what impact it has had. As I say, it's like not giving orange juice to cure someone with hayfever.

In this case the experts have said the dogs are not the problem. Seems like a lot of stress and anxiety to go through ( let alone expense) if Alex doesn't improve.

Trying to be helpful not critical. Allergy tests would seem to be the way to go, at least then you know what you are dealing with and can act accordingly?
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23-10-2011, 05:49 PM
Proper allergy testing sounds like the way forward. My young cousin had severe excema as a baby and the first thing to blame was their poor cat (and that wasn't just from the doctors, but family!!). They had allergy testing done at University College London Hospital and it turns out he was allergic to dairy products.

Jackbox's suggestion about kenneling the dogs (and cats if you have any?) for a couple of weeks sounds like a good idea. Building kennels in your garden only to find out later on that the dogs are not the ones causing the problem is obviously not a route you want to go down because they are not cheap.
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23-10-2011, 05:49 PM
Especially if it turns out he has food allergies?
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23-10-2011, 06:05 PM
I agree with what's been said - your suggested solution won't work - they'll still be in the house during the day, and if it IS what's causing it (and that bit's been gone into before) - it's going to just mean the problem continues only with a big kennel bill and some very confused dogs wondering why their world's suddenly been turned upside down - with no result.

You've got no proof it's what's causing the allergy yet you're prepared to do this - without considering testing? My brother's eczema (the worst case a consultant ever saw in a child - in case anyone tries to claim I've got no idea what I'm talking about) - triggered by kiwi fruit/flavour extracted from kiwis mainly and stress... my own - certain soap powders and stress... not animal hair at all.

I'm leaving my personal views on what you've obviously decided to do out of this (because you're not going to change your mind based on anything here - so I fail to see the point) - but if I was going to be paying out a huge chunk of money to build these "luxury" kennels - I'd want to actually know that the money was going to be of benefit first at the most practical level.
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