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Location: Hertfordshire, UK
Joined: May 2010
Posts: 112
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Originally Posted by
Labman
Very simple, Dogsley is dominated by people that won't tolerate any deviation from the way they feel things should be done. Facts, logic, and scientific studies mean nothing to them. They were born knowing everything there is to know about dogs.
I haven't been on the forum very long but there seem to be a mix of people on here - owners, trainers, instructors, behaviourists, puppy socialisers etc. People seem to contribute to discussions in a way that they think will help - sometimes the suggestions are different to my thoughts on the subject, but that makes them more interesting. It is great to look at other people's ideas and think 'would that work?' 'would that be better than how I do it?'
Yes, of course there are some people in this world who will never change their minds or concede that another person has a valid point, but most people (I would hope) are prepared to consider other ideas - as long as they make sense.
When the ideas don't make sense it is only right to quesiton them - if people are asking for advice they need to end up with the best advice possible - and advising someone that it is okay to walk a puppy until it is necessary to carry him home, is not good advice.
I am sure you believe you are doing the right things with your puppies - why would you do it otherwise - but I think it would be nice if you sometimes listened to what other people are trying to say, and considered whether they have a point.
We can sometimes get so entrenched in our opinions that we forget that there are other ways. For myself, I go to seminars, workshops and courses, read books, go to watch classes, talk to dog people - all in an effort to keep my knowledge up to date. Sadly, I was not born 'knowing everything about dogs' and if I ever get to the point where i believe I
do know everything then I will stop instructing because it would mean that I am no longer prepared to listen to anyone's views other than my own.
Val