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Originally Posted by
crystalgirl
Hi Dont know if you can see, but I have tried all sorts,as my mobility gets worse.I had a morning carer,but her list only allowed 15-20 mins,then I got a dog walker/helper,but she wasnt reliable.
So I met this very nice man while walking my dog,and my dog became unwell,and couldnt carry him with 2 crutches,and as we were up in the hills,not a soul,was going to ditch my crutches,and crawl back home,he appeared,and though we had exchanged good mornings,never really had a conversation,it wasnt a good meeting,as I had just left a violent relationship,and was very wary,I think he sensed this and concentrated on the dog,gradually over a period of time we came friends and he started helping me,though I found it very difficult,because I wanted him to see me not as a disabled person but a vibrant woman. I was getting worse and he told me he just wanted to care for me,but as I am terminal,didnt want any thing permanent,and was worried about his family reaction,there reaction was negative,and y OH decided it would be best to move and make a new life.
So what I am trying to say Malka,you never know what is around the corner,and I feel that Im extremely lucky to have met someone and be given a second chance especially as I was off men.
From your posts you are intelligent warm and have a sense of humour,so there is probably someone out there for you,just keep your mind and eyes open, because I know now,despite me being an absolute b**tch sometimes I do need someone,someone who isnt paid,but wants to be with me because he cares warts and all crystalgirl
Hi Crystal, Fate dealt you a good hand there, sounds like you have a very caring man to take care of you, and I'm sure you count your blessings for that every single day. Lovely story you gave us there.
Originally Posted by
madmare
I feel rather excited now. I have booked 2 weeks off work in August and Lily is booked into the greyhound kennels for 10 of those days, so for the first time in 18 years I can have a proper holiday.
We have planned to go to north Devon for a week but I thought if the weather is good and we are having fun we may decide to stay a couple more days, so just in case, I thought I would make sure I didn't have to panic that the kennels couldn't keep Lily any longer.
Now all I have to do is slim down so I don't look like Mr blobby in a swimsuit.
Roll on August I can't wait.
Hi Bev, Wooop Woooop to that!! 18 years without a holiday, that's about the same as me and Dave
Mind you, my life is one long holiday nowadays, or it will be soon. North Devon is lovely, I've been to Ilfracombe up there and it's very pretty and I remember the cream tea we had in a little countryside tea rooms. We couldn't belieeeeve how big the plate of scones was when she brought them out, and then we had the dilema of cream or jam first
and then we thought we had to eat the lot, and couldn't move when we finished. It was only when we got the bill, we realised we got charged PER SCONE and we thought that was the whole thing for a fixed price
Never forget that
Originally Posted by
jenny.g
June - Keshi clearly 'aint bovered'!!!
Good luck and keep laughing
You have to love her though, she is such a pretty girl
Helena - Tesco is the nearest food store to me so I am a frequent visitor there. However, their new ear-pieces drive me mad too - the wearers of these high-tech aids are
very important people don't you know, the only trouble is they are so busy talking on them and cupping their hands over their ears and mouths that they don't seem to notice any of the shoppers requiring help/
See you all later.
Hi Jen, oh so they're in all the Tesco's now then, as I haven't been there for some time, and this is just a small(ish) one I went to today. I wonder what that's all about then, and he did think he was a very important man, far too important to deal with a helpless old lady or do the job he was put there to do!
Won't be going back there then
Originally Posted by
Taffsmum
Your OH sounds like a lovely man CR. Never mind what his family think as long as you two are happy together. (((hugs)))
Hi Taffsmum, I totally agree with your comment to Crystal here.
Originally Posted by
lore
Evening all,
What a disappointing day. I had an email back from Strathclyde university, they don't do the PGDE in History through distance learning. They do part time learning which would necessitate going to Glasgow once a week. This will be extremely expensive in either fuel costs or train. Unless I find a mega rider going down that will come back up late on cause the classes are 'twilight' classes.
Aberdeen doesn't cover history either, it's residential or nothing. And not heard back from Glasgow yet.
So disappointed with that
Never mind, I am still trying to get decent marks and hoping for the best.
Hi Lorraine, oh, that's very disappointing for you
I'm sure there's a way out to get what you want, you've certainly not slacked in the revision stakes have you, and I'm sure you will get rewarded somewhere for it all. Good luck.
Originally Posted by
tawneywolf
I really think if they are ignoring my emails they are not going to be any more forthcoming if I phone them, so I am afraid I am going to have to leave it, and they gave me so many inklings that they were going to stay in touch just by some of the questions they asked and the general way the conversation went. This isn't the first time this has happened to me unfortunately and you just have to accept it, it flaming well hurts though
I feel like I am not good enough for them or something
Very strange isn't it June, you'd think like I was, that they'd be so over the moon they'd be pestering you with constant updates and pics. There's nowt as strange as folk June and don't take it personally, as Dave said before, some people just get what they want and s*d you kind of attitude don't they! She is also the one you bonded with most (apart from Ash who seems to have taken over your heart along with Keshi) and it would be so nice to have heard something. (((((((((hugs))))))))), they're busy people perhaps, and they just don't think!
Originally Posted by
Bitkin
Evening all, am just about to read back through the thread - should just about get it done before the next Corrie!
Such a glorious sunny day today, so rather than muck about with housework I poddled around outside doing tidying up sort of things as well as putting the pump back in the pond. After just a couple of months the water is looking a bit murky, but it will soon clear now that the filter is doing it's thing. The frogs are absent for the first time since we came here, and we all know why THAT is ....points finger at something with four legs and a stumpy tail. It's very sad in some ways, but at least we won't have the horrors and heartbreak of night after night of slaughter.
Will start reading back now!
Evening old bean
and by the time I got to you Corrie has started again and I want to watch it, so I'll just say a quick "hi" glad you've had a lovely sunny day to deal with the pond and I'll be back later to chat more, otherwise you'll think I've gone off ya!!!!
As if!!!!