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Originally Posted by
Fudgeley
Ailsa I was hoping you would reply.
I am just one of these people who also hates saying no to people...Your points are great and that is exactly the feed back I need.It was me who first expressed interst but I feel it was with rose tinted glasses.The practicalities outweigh the dream.
I'm the same Rachel, don't like to say no or let people down, bUT I think if I were in your position, I would picture myself being tied to 3 and a half days a week, perhaps in a class where I felt the teacher could be more inspiring (
) wondering what I was doing it for when I could be paid more for doing supply and not have the paperwork etc.
I have to admit I like all the things you said about having a 'proper' job, the friendships, the relationships with the children etc, but I just know my heart wouldn't be in it and I think until it is, it wouldn't be fair to take on a 'proper' job, if you see what I mean. I don't personally feel ready to commit to the daily grind again and prefer to do supply when I can, doing one day a week is bad enough!!!!! I'm not sure I will do that next year.
If supply is working for you and your family then stick with that. If you feel you need more, then why not ask your agency if they can find you a regular slot in a school? I fell upon this day by accident when I covered someone elses PPA cover...who then didn't want it anymore!
I do like the idea of a regular part time job, but think you have to look at the quality of life, not just for you, but for all the family and I know ours would suffer massively if I took on a job like that. We wouldn't be able to add another pup later in the year either!!!
Good luck with whatever you decide and congratulations.