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02-03-2007, 10:57 AM
Your mother sounded such a wonderful lady, I expect she was where you get your lovely warm, caring personality from.
My thoughts are very much with you on the anniversary of her untimely death.
Big hugs to you.
Sheree x
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02-03-2007, 11:16 AM
Originally Posted by Vicki 
Sorry you lost your mum so young, Kath. Mine was only 60 when she lost her life to stomach cancer in 1989.
It's very sad
Big hug honey xox
*hug* for you too XX
Originally Posted by jackiew
Sorry for the loss of your mum
i lost my dad 5 years ago (he was 68 ) and am still not over it
doubt i ever will be, like you i cared for my dad in the hospital and never left his side for 5 days
i popped home on the sunday evening to get a shower and change of clothes, my sister and brother took over for me, i had not been in the house 20 minutes and got the call to say he had gone
it broke my heart as i felt he waited for me to leave because he knew i was the weakest one and would not have coped well, but i felt like i let him down
my deepest thoughts are with you hun
and if you wanna chat anytime we can
take care
xxxxx
*hug* for you XX
Originally Posted by Petstalk
Thoughts are with you.
Are mums are such special people.
My mum lost my grandmother suddenly at a young age, I was only 18 moths old. They were very close. The journey has been very painful but time became a healer.
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Originally Posted by Luz
Oh that is so sad, Im so sorry you lost your lovely mum so young. You must of gone through hell during that time. I imagine the pain is still as intense as it was then, I just hope that time is helping to heal the hurt you obviously still feel.
I hope you manage to make it through today okay, I imagine its going to be a tough one for you.
Big hugs & all the sympathy in the world sending down your way. x
Originally Posted by Sara1210
So sorry for your loss
Originally Posted by justlou
{{{hugs}}} to you Kath X
Originally Posted by Mahooli
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Having to make that decision must have been very difficult. I lost my mum on the 29th February 2000 to ovarian cancer, she was 57. My dad died a mere 4 years later to pancreatic cancer aged 74. The way I see it is that they aren't suffering anymore. Dying of cancer is not a nice way to go and I wouldn't wish it in my worst enemy.
Thinking of you.
Becky
Sounds like you've managed to adopt a very sensible attitude instead of being a complete idiot like me.
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Originally Posted by cc22peatree
my partnters dad passed away 2yrs ago this month.
he had lung cancer and unfortunatly spread
he passed 5 days after his 54 bday.
it still hurts just thinking about toby.
my heart goes out to u xxx
Originally Posted by novavizz
Hugs to you and your family, you must have some lovely memories of your mum. Mine died when I was only 6 yrs old and I only have a few memories of her, I can only remember her being poorly, she had breast cancer. My brother was only a baby when she died, she refused treatment for Terry's sake and in those days there were no other options. I have a lovely brother though who I love dearly. You must treasure every single memory of your mum and treat this day as a celebration of her life and not an anniversary of her death. God Bless.
I know I am lucky to have had all of those years with mum, just don't know why I'm cracking up so much this year.
Originally Posted by mj
So sorry for your loss thinking of you at the emotional time.
Originally Posted by Ramble
Big hugs Kath.
I'm sure your mum knew you were there.
There was only one decision to make and you made it.
Massive hugs Kath, you knwo where i am.
Originally Posted by random
Thinking of you today, hugs x
Originally Posted by scorpio
Oh Kath, that is so sad, I'm sitting here crying for your loss, what a very hard but brave decision you made.
Your mother sounded such a wonderful lady, I expect she was where you get your lovely warm, caring personality from.
My thoughts are very much with you on the anniversary of her untimely death.
Big hugs to you.
Sheree x
Thank you for your kind words and thoughts though XX
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02-03-2007, 11:53 AM
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02-03-2007, 11:58 AM
You take as long as you need to.
Take care.
Becky
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02-03-2007, 12:02 PM
you are deff no wuss
i was on wednesday at my uni interview though
the reason i want to go into nursing/midwifery is because i cared for my dad for 2 years before he left us
it was the most fulfilling 2 years of my life,not just because he was my dad but because i was doing someone so nice for another human being and it used to make me feel really good about myself
and i thought that is what i want to do with my life, care for others in the way i cared for my dad
and at my interview they asked me why i wanted to go into nursing so i told them that story and cried as i did
now whos the wuss
(some of you may now realise why i think i won,t get in)
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02-03-2007, 12:08 PM
my mum died 18 years ago in a similar way she was operated on with cancer and never woke up we were asked about the life support but god took it out of our hands and she died before the decission was made
thinking of you today xxx
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