Originally Posted by
Mcpherson
Every dog is unique, but add them to a pack of the same/similar breed, outside a family home and they will form a group mentality. Surely you'd agree?
Please explain why that is not the case with my BCs ? [ four of them ] ? They are each very different from each other even though of the same breed and as it happens no they don`t do pack mentality whether at home or not
The nearest they get to it, [ and the only `group` thing that they do ], is when one barks they all bark, however four of my six dogs being deaf, they only get the vibration of it, they can`t hear that another dog is barking so its nothing to do with pack but each reacting to the same physical stimulus of the vibration they each feel at the time.
More than some, not as much as the rest.
though remarkably defensive.
My defensiveness is on behalf of the people you seem to find need to be derogatory toward, perhaps you don`t realise that`s how you come across so I`m pointing it out. You come across as rude, sarcastic, patronising, and as though you think you are above everyone else.
Why is my attitude rude or (at most)confrontational?
See above
Purely because others choose to declare their stance the only one acceptable?
Its about how you are toward people. Have a different viewpoint by all means, everyone has that right, but you don`t have the right to be rude and patronising to people in the way you speak, [ type ], at them.
Dearie or sweetie is a term I'd use to both my friends and my dogs.
Then kindly reserve it for them, as the way you use it here comes across as patronising.
The quotation marks used later were in response to some rather unfair chauvinist claims.
Unfair in your opinion perhaps however there are other opinions allowed than just yours. Perhaps you could just apologise to those who were offended ?
You claim people who can train dogs without a tap are a subject of my mirth; totally unfounded.
I did`nt think they were a subject of mirth to you, I got the impressions you were more a case of jealous of them.
I have a great deal of respect for people who train animals. I am also an admirer of people who can understand what training each dog requires.
Please tell me any dog which would like to be hit or zapped ?
None ?
Didn`t think so, therefore they are not what a dog requires, what they do require is understanding and for humans to stop thinking its a dogs fault for not understanding what we convey. If a dog does`nt `get it`, that`s down to us miscommunicating to them, that`s
our failing, not the dogs, therefore the dog should not be subjected to pain or fear because of
us getting something wrong.
We have spaniels and deerhounds which are so desperate to obey it is uncanny; unfortunately the same can not be said of our pack terriers. Despite all the training in the world, when the blood runs ( say a fox passes the kennels) they will not listen. These will however, respond to a sharp tap.
You work them, so its what they do, then when they react at a time you don`t require them to go off chasing or killing, you punish them with violence for doing what they are otherwise supposed to do. Nice....not !
Yes
I'm not the one claiming I've found the One True Way-
Why is it that people who can`t understand how to train without violence are fixated on believing that those of us who manage without it are `one true way`ers` ?
There are many different ways to train without violence or intimidation, but presumably as you don`t know how to not use violence you don`t realise its not `one method` involved in positive training.
If your best is thinking hitting is acceptable then that does`nt really say much about your `best` I`m afraid
All this I have stated before, and I have vigorously defended my point of view, as others have done on the opposite side. Quite why this warrants the accusations levelled is beyond me.
Its
how you write it, the way you word things, the patronising attitude, the arrogance, and that is borne up by the fact that you can`t see its what you do.
Hopefully this will cause you to read back through your posts and think about what you could have put differently, to drop the `dearie` type stuff, at least in the way you have used it thus far, and to apologise to those who have been on the receiving end of you being, [ or coming across as ], patronising toward them.
If you were given a slap or a zap for each time you have been rude, how many would you have taken to either learn and understand completely what you were doing wrong or to react with a punch ?
Now think about it from a dogs point of view - imagine you are the dog and you can`t understand what you`ve done `wrong` then you get a clip round the head or a zap for it without even knowing what `it` is.....