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26-09-2010, 04:48 PM
Originally Posted by wilbar View Post
Well for a thread that was supposedly about the misuse of "dominance", this seems to have deteriorated into a private slanging match between people that have been harbouring grudges for years.

Well done Fudgeley for bringing it back on track
Agree 100%
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26-09-2010, 04:52 PM
Originally Posted by wilbar View Post
Well for a thread that was supposedly about the misuse of "dominance", this seems to have deteriorated into a private slanging match between people that have been harbouring grudges for years.

Well done Fudgeley for bringing it back on track
Yeah you are right, I didnt really pay much attention til Rune started telling people what they saw was wrong and that they were dominant and she was right and they were wrong.
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26-09-2010, 05:01 PM
Originally Posted by Tassle View Post
Why does dominance = force?
The most dominant dogs I know very rarely if ever exert force....they just don't have to.
A very good point, Tassle. Hal rarely, if ever, had to exert force. He just, as an alpha male, exuded "presence". It is the lower rank to the alpha male and female, the Beta Enforcers, the soldiers, who exert force in a wolf pack. For us to be good "alphas", we should never exert force, we should control our dogs through calm, assertive energy. Easy words, and I would be the last one to admit that I am perfect, but I do try, and I like to think I am well on the road to being able to at least partially understand what our dogs are telling us, and how to interpret their body language.
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26-09-2010, 05:12 PM
Originally Posted by Ben Mcfuzzylugs View Post
Gnasher, sounds like you are doing good work socalising Ben and helping him over his bad start in life
He sounds v like Mia - she only now lets me brush her tail

But your post before implied to me that if you were a good enough leader then he wouldnt have any of these problems because he would just look to you

Wheras how I see it is he has these problems because of his past and you are working with him to give him the time and positive experience for HIM to be able to be relaxed and happy in these situations because he has been socalised to them
Thats what I want for Mia - not to be having to relying on me to tell her some alternative behaviour - or looking to me at all
But to just be confident in herself in the situation


and Dawn, that post was out of line!
Thanks for your nice comments! And I agree with what you say about Ben - if I were a good enough leader, he would not have these problems. However, he has only been with us 2 or 3 months, and he came to us with a shedload of baggage. Whereas I firmly believe that whatever has happened in the past, belongs in the past, and it should be put behind us, nevertheless it still happened. Ben missed out on 3 or 4 years of vital socialisation, and whereas I will not condone him attacking me, or other dogs, because he does not like what I or they are doing to him or with him, nonetheless I will take on board his previous life's deficits and work with him calmly but assertively to correct him - it is after all for his own good. Other dogs will not make allowances for him, they will not say "oh dear, you poor love, you were mistreated", and neither should we. Firmly, but kindly and fairly we should rebuke his misdemeanours and praise him effusively when he has done good.

We have just come back from a lovely walk in the woods with the pack, and a sojourn to the pub afterwards. Ben was exemplary, he did not put a paw wrong, he was a really good boy. We are getting there, but it will not be a smooth ride. You cannot undo the first 3 years of his life when he had virtually no contact with other dogs, and led anything but a normal life, but you can put it behind him and leave it where it belongs, in the past, and move on. He is a wonderful dog, highly intelligent, and he deserves the best. We will do everything we can to give this to Ben.
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26-09-2010, 05:13 PM
Well I have to say that this thread has actually made me laugh----it has followed such a predictable pattern. Just one thing lacking and with luck that will turn up later on this evening.

Dawn --I am now convinced that you are right and that you are equal to your dogs.

Fudgley your post was great.

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26-09-2010, 05:14 PM
Originally Posted by rune View Post
Well I have to say that this thread has actually made me laugh----it has followed such a predictable pattern. Just one thing lacking and with luck that will turn up later on this evening.

Dawn --I am now convinced that you are right and that you are equal to your dogs.

Fudgley your post was great.

rune
Thank you, Im delighted, I do try never to force anything on them, we live together, happily.
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26-09-2010, 05:21 PM
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I must say I have found this thread interesting,my dogs are not dominant, and I don't believe we are dominant over them.

They more or less do what they want,we have trained them that they are only allowed on the sofa when we tell them it's ok,they get off when we ask,they know there place at our mealtimes which is in their own beds.
I used to reward with treats when they were pups then cut them back,it's not very often they get treats now as they do as we ask because that's how we trained them.

A friend of our's did say one night when we were having a meal on our laps wow,they are well beahaved,our dogs would have had the plate off our lap
Now I wouldn't call that dominant behaviour but a dog that has never been taught and trained,and I think dominant has become a common word for a badly trained dog.
Excellent post, Sal, it sounds like your dogs are extremely well balanced, and you too!
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26-09-2010, 05:24 PM
Originally Posted by Sal View Post
I must say I have found this thread interesting,my dogs are not dominant, and I don't believe we are dominant over them.

They more or less do what they want,we have trained them that they are only allowed on the sofa when we tell them it's ok,they get off when we ask,they know there place at our mealtimes which is in their own beds.
I used to reward with treats when they were pups then cut them back,it's not very often they get treats now as they do as we ask because that's how we trained them.

A friend of our's did say one night when we were having a meal on our laps wow,they are well beahaved,our dogs would have had the plate off our lap
Now I wouldn't call that dominant behaviour but a dog that has never been taught and trained,and I think dominant has become a common word for a badly trained dog.
Yes, I cant believe how many people allow this. I can put a plate of food on the floor and the dogs dont go near it, nor do they go near the cats food that they leave in their bowls in the kitchen.
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26-09-2010, 05:24 PM
Originally Posted by Borderdawn View Post
...Or if you look closely do you see a dog being TOLD to lie down, pushed over onto its other side whilst the owner says "roll over" when in actual fact the dog is fixated on the treat and nothing else at all?
I teach rollover from a Down. You use the treat as a lure - the dog gets the treat as soon as he moves the way you want. Then when he completes the action reliably, you add the cue word.
Some dogs like rolling, and to them all that it is is a natural action that he has been trained to do on cue.
I wouldn`t call these sorts of behaviours tricks, because the dog will roll naturally.
sorry - a bit OT
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26-09-2010, 05:25 PM
Originally Posted by ClaireandDaisy View Post
I teach rollover from a Down. You use the treat as a lure - the dog gets the treat as soon as he moves the way you want. Then when he completes the action reliably, you add the cue word.
Some dogs like rolling, and to them all that it is is a natural action that he has been trained to do on cue.
I wouldn`t call these sorts of behaviours tricks, because the dog will roll naturally.
sorry - a bit OT
Not at all, thanks for your explanation.
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