It's good to hear you say 'we also help each other' but that is totally AT ODDS with what you've been saying previously over and over that you can get no help at all and have no one to help you?

Just today



Obviously people express concern when you make it sound so awful and heartless and uncaring where you live and they just try to suggest things when you are saying stuff like that. Why be rude to them for doing so? I don't know what to say that could help and I've told you that as you've made it quite clear that you have no help, can get no help, and no one is there to help you that you just end up not knowing what to say. But if people 'say nothing' it appears that they are as uncaring as you make your community sound.

Now you say 'we also help each other'.

Well you either DO or you DON'T get help - both can't be true. But people do not deserve rude and dismissive responses from you when they are obviously concerned.

If you don't want to read their suggestions - and there is (as you make it sound) absolutely NOTHING that can be done - then don't post the problems and they won't be suggesting things that might help. If all you want to read in response is sympathetic replies - say so. But sympathy although nice is no help either is it? Again - people are just trying to be helpful.