Afternoon all, and thanks for the sympathies, I sure need it, there's a limit to just how much you can take isn't there, and considering I'm the only one he ever talks to, seems I'm the one constantly taking the brunt, along with the blame. He said he can't talk to me about it, cos I'm too much of a "pull your socks up" person, which I am (although of course I do support him, but when you're constantly being ground down, one day I'm just gonna spring back up with avengeance aren't I). Quite honestly, I'm getting a bit bored with it now, it's the "me, me, me" thing, almost as if it doesn't matter what happens here at home with me and Zena, that's not important is it
That's also probably because he knows how well I would cope in any given situation, I've never been one of those wimmin who has to phone husband to sort something out, cos I can probably sort it better than he could anyway and usually do. I told him he's ill and needs to go to the doctor. I also told him it's not the end of the world he's got locked out of his business account, his wife hasn't got cancer has she
like some poor beggers have to cope with. Oh it makes my blood boil sometimes, he needs to start looking around him at what he HAS got instead of what he HASN'T. Oh woe is me, it's the same old chestnut, and if he had nothing to get depressed about, then I'm darn sure he'd find something
Rant over, I'm gonna forget it all now and enjoy my life during the week-days. A little caravan on Beauport is looking more and more inviting everytime I go through this c*ap!
Had a c*ap haircut too (not my day is it!) I told him I don't like the bits going up at the sides on the short back before it comes down again in the graduated bob (but I forgot my bdooly picture didn't I
). He agreed with me, but then what does he do? Then it looked like a bob, and I told him of my discontent (I was in the mood lol), and he then lifted the sides further back so you can see it graduates from the front view instead of just the side. He has just come back from holiday, but when he started cutting again, I could see he was back on form and it looked good then. I've decided to have a colour with him next week, I'm having the purple, but it's not the bright one, just a sort of mid range one but he said he wouldn't have to bleach it if I went for the darker, so next Tuesday, he's gonna slap that on for me.
Got half way round my dog walk this morning and the mobile went, it was the couple in Van 2, they had no hot water
It didn't surprise me at all because everytime I looked at that boiler pilot light, I could see there was a big bit of crud sitting on it and I didn't like to blow it off in case I blew out the pilot and I don't really know that boiler yet. The guy who had been in it for weeks told me it had always been there and was never a problem, seems like it is now though. I rang my plumber and he's going up there somewhen today to fix it, so I rang her back and told her. They're as happy as Larry in there, they have stayed in our smaller van, but love this one to bits especially the layout she said, it's all so fab! It is of course!
Pat - loving that dress, it's a must have, I love the neckline shape. Thanks for the sympathy of what I'm going through here too.
Linda, so sorry to hear about Loki and another night's lack of sleep for you. ((((hugs))))
Lynn, sorry to hear what Dillon has done to his dewclaw. Cassie did that once, she screamed when I took her to the vet, it was poking out sideways, she had caught it on her half choke collar chasing the ball
The vet decided not to operate cos he said the aftercare can be a nightmare, so he knocked her out, cut it half off and then quarterised it and strapped it to her leg for a while, and it never grew back long again and never gave her a problem. Good luck with it.
Moyra, don't overdo it with that mowing you'll be doing your back in again. You need to find a nice young man who can do it for you. Sadly, I don't have one to lend you!
Rosebud, prunes, yuk, but hope they work!
Jenny, sorry to hear you've had a disturbed night with the foxes, and I hope the long walk wears them out a treat, and you'll be needing a nanny nap won'tcha
June, yes, I couldn't keep that tongue still last night
There's only so far you can bend over backwards, only so long you can tread on eggshells, before you have to come out with a few home truths isn't there
Well I do! He knows that though and has now decided he can't talk to me about work problems anymore cos I "don't understand"
or it ends in an argument and he doesn't want us to argue. Sometimes people need a wake up call don't they, and I might be giving him one soon if things don't improve I can tell ya
I'm sitting here thinking about all that ironing I've got for tonight, oh joy! It'll be lovely when I can see it all on the worktop in a nice, neat pile, but it's the getting there that's depressing me
Hi Jen, Malka, Lorraine, Norma, Mini and anyone else I've forgotten, and I'll catch you all later.