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Location: Birmingham UK
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Oh! Kel sorry this is just not on hun, its too weird
I foster kids and I'd be well and truly warning them if anything like this happened, whichever way it is grooming, she is preying on him and using her powers... love.
Sorry but thats IMO.
Some years ago my eldest worked with a much older woman, and she lavished him, at the time I knew nothing about it, me being divorced with both sons still with me, I was working alot as my youngest was in college.
My eldest had mentioned this to the older woman....nothing bad just saying as you do....it turned out that she interpreted this as ''he was unwanted'' which she invented more in her mind as he is gay and that his younger brother was the blue eyed boy. Every week she was giving my eldest money which he kept trying to give back, £60 here and there, then she started sending him gifts at work, but when he politly refused them she started sending them to our home.....thats how I found out.
She was 58 had a husband that was bedbound with illness and like with your BF talked about sex.
I went to his place of work and had a word with her....she told me that I was unfit to be a mother and that she ''was his mother now''
My son left the job and she stalked him for a long time,and sent me hate mail, we had to get the police involved in the end. OK she was no serial killer but she did have mental health probs and gave us a bit of a shock to be honest.
Im not suggesting this lady is like that but the bf needs to grow up before he gets in too deep, he sounds too innocent or (sorry to say this) loving it, but whatever it is he needs to be honest with you and you with him...well thats my thoughts