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Location: B'ham (nr the airport)
Joined: Dec 2008
Posts: 2,963
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Hi,
As already stated YOU make the rules not your dog. The problem tends to arise when our dogs do somethign we DON'T wnat them to do and we don't teach them to do something differnet instead. So they learn that the unwanted behaviour is OK and we get all narky about our dogs misbehaving!
At only 13 weeks old he's at an ideal stage for learning. He'll pick things up like adry sponge picks up water. SBTs are very intelligent and are easy to train (IMO).
Remember though that puppies do play with their mouths so you will get nipped and chewed occasionally partly through play befcause that's what dogs do and partly due to teething as he grows. Make sure that you teach him about bite inhibition and always do everythign in a positive way.
If he's doing something you don't like tell him "no", "leave", "down" or whatever it is you want him to do. Once he's done the "GOOD" thing then reward him.
ALso, see about getting him into a local training class. At 13 weeks he should have had his 2nd lot of vaccinatons and be OK to go out and about now. He'll learn all about dog socialisation, as will you and you can pick up ideas and tips from the other dog owners as well as the trainers.
Try to look at everyone's training methods objectively. I personally used to watch CM but don't anymore since doing as suggeste and watching with the sound off. Some of what he says makes sense at firest - such as our dogs pick up on how we feel. I believe this to be true because of some of the behaviours of my dogs recently and my home situation.
On the other hand, I don't beleive that eating first, or walking through a door first makes me any less of the boss in my house.
So long as your dog knows you are the boss ir you control the resources - food, walkies time, playtime (you also decide when it stops too), you can't go far wrong.
Don't worry too much about things right now just enjoy your pup and let him be a dog. Make sure he doesn't get into bad habits or form bad manners and you'll have a lovely, friendly, well mannered, well socialised SBT that will be a credit to you.
Good luck.
Laura xx