They must have very pathetic lives , either that or its the only way they can meet women or get women to have anything to do with them, Its quite sad really when you think about it and i bet most of them are single and havent had a girlfriend for quite some time xxdk

Women do it too......

Thats true Lorna ,xxdk

I imagine they also pick on the women when they are at their weakest.Dunno why but I'm always extra cautious when a man approached me when I felt down.It always started alarm bells ringing for me and always kept them at arms length,xxxxxx

I would normally be the same , But for the first time ever this ice maiden let her gaurd slip big style ,but never agin i can tell ya xxdk

I would be very disappointed in my friend if he did this to any of my girlies, needless to say we wouldn't be friends for very long afterwards, I would want to know why he needs the power trip. Sounds like my ex wife, and we all know how I feel about my ex wife.....

Men are often oblivious to how much women give when they meet someone who seems to be "different"

Exactly Lorna But its always the ones whom you think are so nice and genuine that turn out to be slimy dirtbags xxdk

True

I know two men just like that, I often wonder why they do it and what particular thrill they get out of messing with other lives and affections.

I always think they are likely to end up as lonely and bitter.

.......one bad apple...yada yada yada ...the grass is always greener...etc.

Some always chase the rainbow, they are just too thick to realise the pot of gold does not exist.

Yes that is also true! And they generally end up lonely!

Considering there behaviour towards women , It is probably better for the human race they do end up sad and lonely xxdk