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Originally Posted by
Jiff
The point is, the only way to get a true reflection of a dog and its sociability with the dog's you intend it to live with, is to bring that dog to your home.
If I was to take my dog's to the foster home they would immediately be on the back foot going into other canines territory and it would be a pointless introduction.
However when I'm introducing a new dog into my house, that is exactly how I want the new dog to be. I want him to feel apprehensive until the realisation hits him all is well. Then the new dog relaxes, shows its real self and lives quite happily with its new muckers. Though saying that it will many months before the dog shows its true personality as its confidence and happiness grows.
This works for me because I know my dog's would never attack any dog, no matter how small entering my house. This may not apply to other owners and their dog's, and you have a problem that can be dealt with at source and the new dog can be quickly taken back to its foster home. Bryan
I can see your point now, however, from a dog behavioural point of view, i don't think you are entirely correct.
Re your paragraph section i have highlighted, this is true, but also applies the same way, in reverse.
If introducing the new dog into your home with your existing dogs, you will encounter the same problem..
....you dont want any of the dog's first meetings and impressions to be on the back foot or designed so that you create an atmosphere of anxiety or apprehension.
You want all new experiences for the new rescue dog AND your dogs to be positive and relaxed ones.
This gives you a head start before taking the dog into the home, as like you say, its hard enough for all dogs to deal with that anxiety as it is.
When you are arranging meetings ad procedures for rescue dogs, you also need to factor in emotional trauma related to insecurity and rejection, plus kennel related stress.
Slightly different for a foster rescue dog, i know, but you have to also consider that it isn't just your dogs that are being assessed, it is also yourself and your family, quite rightly so.
The oldies club dont actually
know your dogs are dog friendly.
Also, rescue procedures are not designed along a trial and error/sale or return basis, all pre homing procedures are designed so that the home is permanent, to reduce, as best they can, the option of the dog being bounced.
Bounce back does the dog no favours, and if homings were planned along the lines of a "return option", it would be quite hard for rescues to plan spacings for new dogs.
Unfortunately, rescue space demand far outstrips supply.
However, have you discussed this issue with the oldies club?
They may be happy to arrange a compromise whereby the dogs meet on neutral territory or meet in both homes?.