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Head against brick wall anyone !!
Just have to have a rant...
Dont know how many of you remember my thread regarding my idiotic brother and the horrible situation that had arisen between my parents and him and his wife regarding their grandchild.
Basically, brother and wife stopped speaking to my parents after my parents tried to change arrangements for babysitting duties they had agreed to. This started a ball rolling which resulted in so many things said between them that they ended up in family mediation ( organised by my sis in law)
because they all were incapable of having a civilised discussion without it resulting in shouting.
Anyway long story short, the mediation was this evening and my brother and his wife, basically told my poor parents that they dont want a relationship with them,but they will still allow them to see their grandson ( but that they are lucky to get that - their words !! )
They are very anal individuals who wont allow anything to send them off their insane schedule they have their child on, and as I had mentioned previously, one of the issues they had thrown at my mum, was that she had brought their son to my house and exposed him to my dog.
They were not happy as " havent you seen the papers about all those staffies that attack children"
When I had found this out, I was most displeased and sat down with my brother and set him straight on a few things regarding my dog specifically, and staffies in general and also not believing everything you read... etc etc. We had left it that he was going to think about it all and decide whether he would visit me again with the dog around etc.
He has since visited twice since I have had m,y daughter, and I naturally assumed that he was more comfortable with the dog etc now.
Meantime I had visited my mum whilst she had my nephew and also had been looking after my son, and so had gone to collect him after walking the dog so had Bruno with me, and my nephew for the first time ever instead of being scared of the dog ( his parents doing) came straight over and took the lead off me and walked my dog round the house and was playing and enjoying him.. I took a photo to show my brother when he got there, thinking he would be delighted that his previously terrified of dogs, child was now comfortable enough to be holding the lead and playing with the dog....
Only to be confronted when I showed him the picture with a grunt and not so much as a smile.....
This evening he throws it in my mum and dads face that he made it very clear he didnt want his child anywhere near one of those staffies
and that they have once again not OBEYED him.....
This I might add is one of those staffies that has lived with my son for the last 3 1/2 years and been with us for 7 years and has put up with literally loads of kids in and out of my house of all ages and has never so much as raised an eyebrow at any of them.
I am absolutely LIVID that my brother is such an axx and cannot see how bigoted and ridiculous he is, and somehow has so little faith/trust etc in me and my dog, and that he uses this as further ammunition against my mum and dad.....
arrrgghhhh I am so so angry.
I feel like phoning him and making it quite clear he is no longer welcome, if he feels this way about quite frankly a member of my family...
ooohhhh am just so mad.