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Originally Posted by Natasha
I wouldnt say anything if I was her, she didnt think they were going out so wasnt cheating on him and she only kissed them, no harm done
But then again he thinks they were going out
and what if he did found out, sometimes these things just slip out, might be best if she told him that they werent even going out so thought there was no point of mentioning it until now as he says they were, its obvious she is worried and it will only bother her more keeping it in if she is the worrying type. Not much good at giving advice Gems
I told her not to say anything, as its only kissing and it was a long time ago, but i duno lol she doesnt like lying to him, theres only so much i can say!
Originally Posted by spike_the_staffy
From a guys point, thats not really cheating!
its just a kiss! big deal, tell her to get over it!! hehe
am sure her BF wont loose any sleep over it,
BUT............... why she still thinking about that after 10 MONTHS????????
I keep telling her to get over it, but she cant, i duno what to suggest, i dont know why she is still thinking about it, i cant understand, if it was JUST a kiss, why it should still be in her mind, maybe she isnt telling me everything!?
Originally Posted by Staffy
No point in saying anything now. Why bring up something that happened 10months ago? It'll only cause unnecessary heartache
Exactly what i said, thanks, to me it will just make a mountain out of a molehill!
Originally Posted by Lucky Star
Oh Gawd, there isn't really anything to 'fess up to. They weren't really going out, even if he thought they were, and she should just chalk it up to experience and write it off. It's not as though she is cheating on him now so she didn't do anything underhand.
Tell her to just forget it and enjoy the relationship and her future.
Thats why maybe im thinking more than a kiss happened, i dont know, the way she is going on about it, seems like she is really regretting something, but still if they werent dating, oh im not sure lol!
Its all very confusing!
thanks for the advice guys! much appreciated!