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Originally Posted by
Mummy2Max
The thing is I've always said to myself that there is no way I would ever take any amount of crap from any guy, but now that I'm in the position, I know what I should do but I'm really finding it tough to have the courage to do it
I think what some of you have said is right though, I'm going to leave it until Monday and see what happens first - unsure yet as to whether or not I'm going to follow him, but he has told me that he's going to his parents on Monday, so maybe I'll pretend I need to speak to him and give them a call, at least then I'll know if he's lied to me about that or not - I feel awful for being so suspicious
Oh I've done all that, the following, the list of "coincidences" which were all denied of course, and quite honestly I nearly drove myself into an early grave through all of it.
Far better just to come out with your suspiscions right now,
confront him, tell him of your fears, he'll either cuddle up to you and tell you not to be so silly, or he'll get his guard up and then you'll just know, like we always do! I feel for you, I really do, this can be sooooo stressful and worrying for you, but sometimes you have to take the bull by the horns and do what's right for yourself, afterall, it's YOU who's suffering not him at the moment, and if he is contemplating getting up to no good, he's on cloud bl@@dy 9 at the moment isn't he, whilst you're all stressed and worrying, and you'll end up making yourself ill, just like I did for no reason, I'd never, ever do it again, I'm worth far more than that! I'm a tough old bird now, and he knows he'd never get away with anything like that with me again either! Please be kind to yourself and have a word a.s.a.p.